The World of Professions

by Gabriele Drescher-Krumrey

 

In the „Power Girls´Club“, the eight oldest girls in our kindergarten had already gained experience of what it’s like when they can only go on a discovery tour together with girls. During the first six lessons of the club, they had dealt thoroughly with the subject of „What is a powergirl?“, and they had already done a scientific experiment (Carrot Experiment).

The Power Girls´ Club will now be continued with the 7th Club lesson and the new topic „Professions“.

You can read more about why I founded this club and which goals I pursue with it here. Parallel to it exists the „Club of the Gentle Boys“ led by another colleague.

… in a nutshell …

The author has developed and led a girls‘ learning club for one kindergarten year. Some of the weekly club lessons are described in this article.

All colleagues who want to try something similar will find here (and in the other contributions of the author, to which the text refers) not only suggestions, but also a complete concept and a basically reworked process planning for the promotion of especially gifted girls.
On this basis they can gain new and own experiences and offer valuable learning incentives to the girls.

During the IHVO Certificate Course, which I completed, we had the task of observing a presumably particularly gifted child particularly intensively. I had decided in favour of Lina.

In kindergarten Lina stood out for her very calm, reliable, persistent, prudent, observant, social and also ambitious behaviour. Lina understood and learnt particularly quickly, but was initially quite shy and insecure in the group. During the first six club hours she already blossomed.

She has significantly increased her self-confidence and independence in our club lessons together. She now seems relaxed and is always curious about what will be experienced, tried out and worked out together in the next lesson.

Lina (now 6;2 years old) is still very careful and correct in her work, although she looks at the other girls much less often than before. It seems that Lina now feels confident that what she has thought about is well thought out. She carries out the tasks with her own ideas. I rarely notice that she sits in front of the task and needs time to get started.

She stands out through her alert, open gaze. Her expressions are constructive and are introduced spontaneously or deliberately. She grasps tasks immediately and can now contribute to the topic very quickly, loudly and appropriately.

There are only seven girls left in the club, as one has moved away with her family. All seven girls have clearly gained security in the three months of club time so far, are able to communicate their interests clearly, are courageous to ask questions and enjoy finding answers together.

Elise (6;0) and Laura (5;6) have learnt not to always be immediately sparkling with questions and answers. They can also wait until other girls have put forward their ideas.

In this group Ayşe (5;3) often cannot follow the club hour contentwise. This is mainly due to her still weak knowledge of German. She gets bored more often, because she does not understand the conversations in the club sufficiently. In the practical part, during movement exercises or while painting, she participates more actively. She uses her good observation skills to orientate herself in the task at hand.
Ayşe is slightly tired, yawns a lot and usually lies on the floor or walks aimlessly through the gym. The girls accept Ayşes behaviour without remarks, she is part of the group.

What opportunities do I want to offer the girls?

1. in the area of self-confidence:

    • To clearly recognise their own abilities and needs.
    • To recognize, how they can use their interests and abilities for themselves.
    • To recognize how they can receive support through questions.
    • To recognise what else interests them and gives them pleasure.
    • To recognize how they can show their environment what they are made of.
    • To recognize how one can learn with each other and from each other.

2. in the field of language:

They can practice,

    • to exchange ideas,
    • to try out and apply their linguistic competence in a targeted way,
    • to listen in the group, to record and implement what they have heard,
    • to converse in a topic-oriented way,
    • to translate spoken words into writing.

3. in the field of knowledge of occupations:

Here are the goals:

    • The girls expand their knowledge by deepening the current group topic („researchers, artists and inventors, that´s what we children are interested in!“).
    • They expand their knowledge about the professions of their parents, get to know the names and contents of the professions.
    • They get to know women’s and men’s occupations.
    • They formulate their first own career aspirations.

The following activities are planned:

Painting, handicrafts,
talk, sing, shout, scream,
talk to each other, listen to each other, exchange ideas,
play,
jumping, running, dancing, romping,
meditate, dream, feel, sense,
think, ponder, think up,
do nothing, just being there,
invent, observe, recognize,
visit, explore,
read aloud, read,
write, rewrite, copy,
play and perform theater,
show yourself, present yourself.

The Club Hours

In order not to go beyond the scope of my (IHVO) homework, I will describe only some of the club lessons in more detail.

The description of the 1st to 5th club hour can be found in: What is a Power Girl?,
the description of the 6th clubhour can be found in: Carrot Experiment.

7th club hour:
Which professions do we know?

Game: A wonderful pillow fight.
Homework: What profession do mummy / daddy have?

In the gym we sit in a circle on the floor, in the middle there is a candle, in the background quiet meditative music plays.
After the longer Christmas break I want to have an intensive conversation with the girls. They have experienced a lot and talk in detail.
The group is very restless, the Christmas experiences are still very current and the telling takes quite a while.

Laura (5;6) got a children’s Bible for Christmas and brought it with her. She is enthusiastic about the stories. I start to tell the Christmas story, and we gather it together with a lot of fun.

Then we talk again about what it means to be a power girl. Here are their remarks:

„Because we work well.“
„Because we train.“
„Because we think well.
„Because we try things out.“
„Because we practice.“
„Because we smell good.“
„Because we eat and drink a lot.“
„Because we learn.“
„Because we work the bones and muscles.“

Formulating their own ideas further motivates the girls for their club.

Movement game: A wonderful pillow fight.

We place ourselves in a circle. The girls have discovered something they don’t know yet: I filled a duvet cover and two pillowcases with balloons. The girls can use it to try out different games.
First I throw them one of the pillows, they immediately play with it. So I bring the second pillow into play and the game becomes more lively.
After a few minutes I add the duvet cover and quickly the game develops in such a way that all the girls throw themselves onto the balloons and roll on them.

Finally I ask: „Who can let themselves fall on the „balloon mat“, forward or backward?

Lina does not hesitate and immediately drops courageously onto the balloons. Some are not so sure if they should dare, but in the end all the girls try it out. Even when it comes to being covered with the balloons in the covers, Lina, once so shy, leads the way.

We finish the game and sit back in the circle. The girls are happy and relaxed. Now I begin my transition to the subject of professions. I tell them that professions will be the motto of our carnival celebration, which is why we want to deal with professions.

I ask if they know anything about occupations and already know occupations. They are reserved, so I ask them about my profession. Most girls know the job title „Kindergarten teacher“, Ayşe she gets to know again.
That’s what the girls think of the job description:

„Playing.
„To help the children learn.
„Handicrafts.“
„Singing.
„Think about what the children want.“

I ask the children if they know any other professions.

Lina knows her mother’s profession, she is a music teacher.
Laura doesn’t know the name for her mother’s profession, but she can describe exactly what her mother does: „She translates poems – I don’t know exactly what that is – from Spanish to German.

All the other girls think about it, but probably don’t dare to say anything or don’t know their parents‘ professions. I leave it at that and hand out two worksheets to each girl.
On it „Mama“ or „Papa“ is to be supplemented. They should take the sheets home with them and have their parents enter the job title.
The girls should inform themselves about the professions of their parents and then introduce them to the group.

Lina, Greta (6;0) and Laura immediately write „Mama“ and „Papa“, Elise (6;0) and Melisa (5;8) shout „I can’t do that“, but look at the other girls, shout „I already know“ and also write. Ayşe behaves quietly and also writes. I can’t tell if she is writing it on her own or if she is orienting herself towards the other girls.

They like the „homework“. Elise has doubts whether she can remember everything her parents will tell her. The others are just happy that they have a homework assignment.

8th club hour:
What profession do mummy and daddy have?

Game: We jump our name: We jump our name and the professions of our parents.

I ask how the girls are doing; some were sick and I was too.

My colleague made a pantomime game with my club last week. The girls tell me that they have pantomimed the professions they know.

When I ask about the „homework“, it turns out that three girls did not bring their leaves back with them. Elise immediately says: „But I know what my mum does.“ And Greta says very quietly: „I also know what my mum and dad work.“

The girls have their worksheets, if available, in front of them and we talk about what they have experienced.
I give you excerpts of this here.

Lina begins and reports, and I read out what the parents have written about it.
All girls can imagine the profession of the music teacher; Lina reminds the girls of the music teacher who worked for us in the kindergarten for a while.
Linas father is a software developer; this is more complicated than that. But all children know computers and computer games, so they can make a connection to what Linas‘ father wrote down: „I work on the computer and create programs so that the computers work well“.

Greta’s father is a dentist and her mother is a dental assistant. The girls know these professions very well, because a dentist regularly comes to our kindergarten with her dental assistant. The children also go to the dentist´s office.

Melisa’s father is a machine fitter. All girls have a hard time imagining this profession and Melisa can tell little about it, so I have to supplement what I know. Her mother is a housewife, and we think together about the tasks a housewife has. The result is that a housewife also has many different tasks.

Since I know that Ayşe´s mother is a housewife too, we can include Ayşe well. She thinks with us about what her mother has to do at home. Her father is a heating engineer. I ask her to ask her father what he has to do in his job, because I think it is important that the girls can personally tell something about the jobs.

Elise can explain her mother’s profession very precisely, but she doesn’t know the job title (pharmaceutical consultant). She doesn’t know her father’s profession and so she also gets the task to ask him.

Tina’s mother is a neurologist, her father a psychiatrist. Tina can explain exactly what the parents do in their job and where they work.

Laura tells that the name of her mother’s profession is very long, she is a literary scholar (in German Literaturwissenschaftlerin), which Laura alone has copied onto the worksheet. The father is a musician, Laura shows pantomimically how he drums.

The girls, who have information about their parents‘ professions, are visibly proud to share their knowledge. All the girls listen to the reports with interest.

Then I ask the girls to paint the activity of their parents.
They start immediately and everyone has ideas on how to portray the activity.

The pictures show that they have understood the explanations of the parents and our reflections in the group and have thus expanded their knowledge.

Lina says: „I paint my dad from behind, sitting at the computer, it’s quite difficult.“

I ask the children to also write the job title. Lina also copies the whole addition from the worksheet. Then she doesn’t have time anymore to present the work of her mother.

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Lina´s picture: Software developer.

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Laura´s picture: Literary scholar

The comparison of the two pictures shows that Laura has drawn very beautifully and differentiatedly and accurately and that she can already write clear letters – her current preferred way of expressing herself is clearly drawing. Then she no longer wanted to write the second part of the job title herself, I should add.

Lina’s drawing is rather schematic, but she writes the whole page full. Obviously her current interest lies in writing.

Trampolining

At the end of this club hour I offer a movement game. We have purchased a new trampoline which I would like to use. After a few rounds of free experimentation, I set the girls the task of jumping their names the way they hear the syllables and how they emphasize them. Afterwards they are to convert the professions of the parents into jumps.

Lina immediately understands the task, she promptly says her name in syllables. The other girls follow her example.

They are happy that the job titles are longer and that they can jump more often. They do this enthusiastically and with many repetitions.

The „word jumping“ is supposed to promote a holistic feeling for language in the girls.

Now it is about jumping any words. Even as she waits, Lina thinks about which words she could skip. I observe that Lina has always been curious and waiting for the new task. She has been able to develop so much personal power and strength in recent months that she clearly shows and uses her great willingness to learn.

These exercises were also a lot of fun for Ayşe. She hasn’t thought about any of her own words, but the recording and carrying out of the other children’s words will certainly help her feel for the language.

9th club hour:
What else can I discover about the professions of my parents?

Game: Form words to the first letter.

There are six girls again.
The topic today is: What else can I discover about the professions of my parents?

I take up the contents of the last club lesson and ask the girls who can imagine a profession other than that of the parents. They think briefly and say that they know no other profession.
I suggest choosing a girl in order to talk more about her parents‘ profession. They agree on Greta (dentist / dental assistant). They immediately think of the right profession and we collect the information.

The three children who had not filled out a worksheet at the last hour of the club worked it out with the help of my colleague the day before. Elise’s mother asked us to fill out the worksheet with her daughter. We did not reach Ayşe´s and Nora’s parents to ask them personally for their cooperation, so I took the information from our documents.
So all the club girls have similar prerequisites to continue working with their parents‘ professions.

Today Elise explains her father’s profession to us. He is a craftsman and works on building sites. When the house is nearly finished, he is responsible for dry construction. Together, we think about what he is going to do in the house and come up with something: Laying floors, cladding ceilings.

Ayşe unfortunately has no information about her father’s profession yet, as her mother could not explain the profession to her either. So we consider, what the job title heating engineer says over the occupation. The children know the heater and know how important it is for us. Thus it succeeds to include also Ayşe with.

Letters!

In the club hours I noticed that it was great fun for the girls to write their names, the date or even the topic on their picture.

So I make the suggestion to look at the first letter of the job title on the old worksheets and circle it. Then each girl should introduce her letter, and together we will think about which professions start with this letter.

Lina, Elise, Nora and Melisa also find the other professions with the same initial letter, for example: music teacher – machine fitter and housewife – heating engineer.

On the floor of the gymnasium I distribute the letters of the alphabet (painted large on DIN A4 sheets).

The girls should select the first letters of their mother’s and father’s profession and introduce the two letters.

Game:

Now only the letters are on the floor which they have already got to know. There is music with a fast rhythm. The girls move freely in the room. I stop the music and say a letter where everyone should gather.
When all the girls are gathered by the respective letter, the group considers which professions begin with this letter and which other words they know with this initial letter.

I observe that, despite the fast music, the girls keep slowing down in their movements, looking at the letters and thinking. They seem to think about which words belong to which letter.

Lina is also very active in this game and finds many words. I see her looking closely at the girls in the group, looking around the gym and looking out the window to find new words.

The group motivates each other, so they construct new words to find out if their word creates a meaningful word, for example:
M-musicians / H-husicians.

Through these experiments they develop a better understanding of the language. The foreign children of the club, Melisa and Ayşe, notice with this playful contact with language that also the German children must try something out, in order to come to the correct result.

When the time is up, the children are disappointed that we are already coming to the end. Now the girls express the idea to create a game for the other children of the kindergarten group: With the help of the worksheets, the painted pictures and the large-format letters, they want to present a narrative game about professions.
I took up this idea in the 13th and 14th club hour. We created a memory game.

10th club lesson:
Can girls and boys learn and practice the same professions?

Game: Make-up like „Dumme Augustine“ (Silly Augustine – Character from a popular children’s book, she is a clown),

I explain to the children that I brought along a picture book for this club lesson: „Die dumme Augustine“ by Otfried Preußler and Herbert Lentz.

Contents of the book:

The story tells of the „Silly Augustine“ who wants to perform in the circus so much. But her husband, the „Silly August“, doesn’t want it. He tells her to do her household chores and take care of the children.
He also says that she can’t play the role of the clown at all.

Then the „Silly August“ gets toothache and has to go to the dentist for treatment while the circus show is on. The „Silly Augustine“ takes the opportunity and plays the clown role of the „Silly Augustine“ in the circus ring. The audience and the circus director are enthusiastic about her performance. „Silly August“ comes back just in time to experience the success of his wife. He is amazed and happy and can no longer say: „You can’t do that“.
So they decide to do all the housework, looking after the children and, of course, performing in the circus together.

The club girls look at the picture book thoroughly together, I read the text. Only Lina already knows it, but thinks it was a long time ago; it’s new for the other girls.

The girls want to know why the „Silly Augustine“ is called that. I explain to them that „Silly August“ is a clown role in the circus. We think about what other clowns there are and find only the Pierrot. So I suggest that everyone consider until the next club hour and ask which clowns they or their families know.

While looking at the pictures, the girls talk excitedly about what they see and comment on what they find „silly“, for example that the „Silly Augustine“ always has to do all the housework alone and is not allowed to perform in the circus.

They have obviously already developed a good feeling that they would be restricted if certain activities were not allowed to them because they are girls.

Then we exchange ideas.I don’t have to ask many questions or contribute many thoughts to show the girls clearly that girls and boys as well as men and women can learn the same thing. The conversation about this is very lively and clear.

Tina and Laura say that mum and dad work in their jobs and in the household. Elise confirms this and Greta nods in agreement. Melisa tells that her mom works at home and that her dad is sleeping or watching TV when he is at home. Lina says: „My mum works at home, but when dad is there, he also works at home“. Ayşe is unfortunately missing from this club hour.

This „Power Girls´ Club“ has smart, curious and
self-confident members!

For our planned „storytelling game of professions“ we still deal with the terms „male“ and „female“.

I show and explain the prepared worksheets to them.

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All the girls paint and copy it on a card. Here is Lina’s result:

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Make-up

Finally the girls put on make-up (or have me do it for them) until they look like the „Silly  Augustine“.

They look again and again into the book and discover another colour, which should be in their face like the Augustine.

Greta doesn’t know if she should or may put on make-up, and Elise knows that she is allergic to make-up. Nevertheless, the two of them are not bored, but participate with tips and assistance in the make-up of their friends.

Short interim evaluation

The previous offers were very well received by the girls, who are always excited with curiosity and motivated to discover and try something new.

Lina says every hour how she is looking forward to the school and wants me to do more homework as well.

Elise and Laura confirm this, and Elise surprises me with the request: „I want to practice writing much more“. Lina, Laura and Melisa also want to write more. So in the next club hour I will offer them a homework booklet and think about tasks.

I find it exciting to see what ideas and wishes the girls develop and thus play an increasingly active role in shaping their learning field.

The club develops its own dynamic and is apparently
an ideal learning field for the girls.

11th club hour:
Painting the Silly Augustine and her family. (They all wear clown disguises.)
Work on what you missed in the previous hours.

12th club hour:
Voluntary writing exercises
Game: Practicing say No

13th club hour:
Design memory game

14th club hour:
Memory game review and play

15th club hour:
Walk through our part of town: We observe how people practise their profession.
We try to clarify which professions are practised in a pharmacy, at the airport or in the church.

The task is: Which people do we see who are currently exercising their profession? And where are there still people in our district who work?

On the way, I note down all the professions that the girls see and name:

Tram driver – bus driver – forester – lumberjack – gardener – taxi driver – newspaper deliverer – pilot – truck driver – hairdresser – caretaker – baker – bakery saleswoman – paramedic – doctor – florist – flight attendant – nurse – postman – midwife – pastor – librarian – policeman – pharmacist – television and radio mechanic – occupational therapist – tailor – ice cream vendor – construction worker.

The girls are very motivated and take a close look at the people we meet. Most of them don’t show their profession, but some do.
Sometimes we do not see the working person, but are encouraged to think about it by a building or vehicles (taxi, emergency ambulance). So we stand in front of the Catholic Church and consider who is working in it.

16th club hour:
What professions did we discover during our walk? Which do you find particularly interesting? Painting the interesting profession.

Game: Movement construction site in the gym.
Homework: Worksheet „My career aspiration is…“.

Six of the seven club girls were present during the walk, they are all present now.

First I ask the children to remember our extensive walk through the district last week. We will repeat our observations together. The girls together can remember all the professions I wrote down. Especially important for them was the chance encounter with the policeman responsible for us, to whom the girls told which observation task they were currently on the road with and that it would now also be written down by me.

When I asked them which profession (of those written down) they would most like to pursue, the girls did not answer immediately, but rather thoughtfully.

I distribute the painting sheets and ask them to paint the profession. Then every girl could tell why she finds the profession interesting.

Lina’s picture:

Lina tells me that she thinks the bakery is great and that she wants to sell cakes. I ask her if she doesn’t want to eat the cake herself. She laughs and says: „Yes“.

Tina and Nina have also chosen the bakery saleswoman and also like to eat cake. Both are of the opinion that they could eat as much cake as they wanted in the bakery.

Melisa surprises me with her career choice. She paints a house and wants to be a construction worker. When I asked her if she had ever seen women on a construction site, she denied it. We think together that strong girls can also work on a construction site.

Elise painted a church and a pastor. Her reason is that it is beautiful in church. Her parents do not belong to any religion, but Elise sings in the Protestant children’s choir.

Ayşe paints several policemen because she finds them beautiful. For Ayşes choice our conversation with the policeman is probably decisive, she can remember that well; on the other hand the repetition of the professions discovered in the district was not so easy for her to understand.

The power girls now receive a worksheet with the text:

„I WANT TO BECOME ________________________“.

Until the next hour of the club, they should consider what career they already have in mind (regardless of our job list).

Lina immediately shouts: „I know what I’m writing down!“ Elise shouts: „I don’t know yet!“ The other girls don’t say anything about it.

I also tell them that writing it down does not mean that their career aspirations cannot change. Elise and Nina seem reassured.

17th club hour:
What career do I have in mind? Discussing the worksheets.

Game: Trampoline jumping, skill exercises.

We welcome Laura back into our group, who was on holiday for three weeks. She received the worksheet from me so that she could also bring her career aspiration with her. Laura tells me that her holiday was great, but now she is happy to be able to join the club again.

During the club hours, the girls have already expressed various career aspirations, for example their chosen profession from our job list. When Laura and Elise attended a swimming course, they wanted to become swimming teachers.

Now I am curious about the career aspirations of the power girls.

Melisa is very excited because today she brought two pictures of the big machines that her father is repairing. I asked her father a few weeks ago and now I praise Melisa for bringing the pictures with her.
We remember her father’s profession and the girls find it impressive how big the machines are.

Of my seven participants, only four girls brought their worksheets with them: Lina, Laura, Tina and Melisa. After all!

We sit in a circle on the floor and the worksheets are in front of the girls. I ask them who would like to start telling us her career aspirations.

Lina answers immediately. She wants to become a singer because she is already singing in the choir and has already performed a solo there. She thinks she can sing very beautifully and it is a lot of fun for her.
She continues by saying that she also learns to play the flute. Tina shouts: „I’m learning to play the flute too, but I don’t want to become a singer!“ Elise and Laura tell the club that they also sing in the choir and don’t want to become singers either.

Elise is very restless and says: „I don’t know yet what I want to become.“ I calm her down and say that she still has a lot of time to choose a profession.

Laura cannot decide between two professions: She wants to be an artist, preferably a painter, but she also wants to become a doctor and help other people.
Elise shouts in between: „Maybe I can become a doctor too, I want to help people too!“

Ayşe does not tell so much. She wants to become an ice cream saleswoman because she likes to eat ice cream.

Melisa wants to become a veterinarian because she likes animals so much and wants to help them.
Tina wants to become a riding instructor because she likes horses so much and wants to ride a lot.

Suddenly the horse is the centre of attention: Everyone thinks horses are great, want to ride and of course help the horse.
I encourage the girls to paint a horse or a veterinarian at work. They start immediately. They all paint several pictures, for example a horse with a riding instructor or – Laura’s idea – a veterinarian with a ladybird.

Lina says at the end of the painting action:

„But I still prefer to become a singer.“

I find that strong and encourage her in her wish.

At the end of the lesson I offer them trampoline jumping; I know that they all love it. I encourage them to present their favourite jumps. They like to do this and challenge each other to ever more courageous jumps, for example: jumping on one leg, jumping with their knees.

We end the club hour with a short conversation about how we can organize our club hours in the near future. I explain to them that we will meet people with different professions and that we will also meet with the „gentle boys“ and the „great researchers“.

18th club hour:
Lesson together with the „Club of the gentle boys“. We present a profession that is interesting for us pantomimically and let the group guess what it is.

Game: We jump words.
Preview: Joint visit to an (female) architect.

I greet the „Gentle Boys“ in our club. Today (unfortunately only) four power girls and eight gentle boys are present. My colleague, who runs the Club of the Gentle Boys, is on vacation.
We are back in the gym, where the Gentle Boys have only rarely been in their club hours. The girls, on the other hand, have spent most of their club hours here. They know the procedure and the associated rules very well and always keep to them. I seldom have to remind them of agreements because they are reliable and responsible in their actions.

In one part of the gym I laid a circle of mats. When we enter the gym together, the girls take off their slippers and put them together very neatly. This rule was introduced by the girls themselves and is based on the fact that they can sit better on the floor and move more freely without slippers.

The boys behave insecurely and nobody makes the decision to imitate the girls. They stand in the gym, don’t run around and seem to wait.

Before I can take the floor, Lina and Laura explain very correctly, decisively and logically why it is better for them to take off their slippers. The boys do not question the explanations; they take off their slippers and place them just as neatly next to the girls‘ shoes.

I am amazed that the otherwise very noisy Gentle Boys behave so cautiously and even without grumbling and contradicting the invitation by the girls. The gentle boys seem to respect the privilege of the girls in the gym, although the boys are in the majority today.

As an introduction I ask the children which professions they have already got to know. The Soft Boys have also dealt with the subject of occupations in their club hours. They talk about electricians, architects, bicycle mechanics and gardeners. These are professions of the fathers of the gentle boys.

The girls also talk about their parents‘ professions and what they have to do with them, but Lina and Laura also explain their own career aspirations. One of the boys, Lutz, says long drawn out: „I don’t know after all“. He seems to be thinking about what he might become.

Now I ask them to pantomime a profession they are interested in. I ask the girls to explain the game to the boys, since they have played it before.

Then Laura begins, she represents a painter. Most boys now seem more interested and take part in guessing.

Lina plays a singer; guessing this isn’t easy, and the girls have an advantage because they remember Lina’s career aspirations.

The portrayal of Moritz is particularly exciting; he plays a small theatre scene. It’s the gardener’s job, he rakes, plants flowers, water them, converses silently and has almost forgotten the group.

Lutz lays cables, his father is an electrician, Lutz knows his workplace.

Sven builds a house, his father is an architect. He talks enthusiastically about his father.

Two boys don’t take part in the game, but roll around on the mat. I talk to them, but they don’t feel like taking part.

After this concentrated conversation and play, I ask the children to choose another movement game. The girls immediately shout: „We want to jump on the trampoline“ and Lina adds: „We jump on words“.

Some boys have followed the suggestion closely and are now frowning. They probably have no idea what that means. I mediate and say: „The girls show you their game on the trampoline.“

After the first jumps of the girls – they jump their names – some of the Gentle Boys join in joyfully. Some of the boys seem to be afraid at first and make very timid jumps; the group cheers them on to jump higher.

The girls get their ideas about the words they want to jump from the club hours, so they also jump job titles.

Here I notice that the boys find it harder than the girls to jump to the rhythm of the individual syllables. (Maybe it’s just because they’re not so familiar with trampoline jumping yet.) Only Moritz gets it right and wants to jump more and more difficult words. He shouts: „Now I want to jump a word with five syllables.“

Lina answers him immediately: „I have one with six syllables: Fahr-rad-me-cha-ni-ker.“ (Bicycle mechanic.)

Moritz doesn’t even want to stop jumping, he’s thrilled. Lina claps her hands and is just as happy.

Finally, I tell the two clubs that in two weeks we are going to visit Maria, Petra’s mother. We visit her in her office and learn something about her profession: architect. That concludes the club hour.

21st club hour:
(together with the „Gentle Boys“). We discuss the visit to the architect.

We paint a „thank you picture“ and write a letter about it.
Worksheet: (You can print the sheet in the Sheet Collection.)
Movement play with music: Each child gives a movement once.

In a discussion round we exchange information about what information we received about Maria’s profession and how we liked the visit.

Most of the children are enthusiastic about our visit to Maria, although it was not easy to understand her work. She does not draw plans, but supervises schools. She is the planning coordinator for repairs and renovations at the schools in Cologne.

The children still know:
If something is broken in a school, Maria makes sure that it is repaired.

Despite the large group of 18 children (11 boys and 7 girls), the children are amazingly concentrated in our evaluation interview. It is not as quiet and harmonious as when the Power Girls Club meets alone, but I am pleasantly surprised at how the group deals with each other.

Every now and then they try to talk in confusion, but in these situations Elise, Tina and Laura are immediately on the spot and call out to the group: „We all have to be quiet and listen, otherwise we can’t understand each other“.
Lina is rather reserved in these situations and observes intensively what is going on.

Some boys (Felix, Moritz and Lutz) also try to influence the group; they do not participate in disturbances, but help the girls to calm the group down.

It seems that all these children are very interested in a concentrated and undisturbed atmosphere for discussion and work.

Some disorders are caused by the fact that some children (Ayşe, Akay, Leo) want to talk to each other in between because they cannot listen for so long.

We collect everything we know about Maria’s profession. Lina and Felix still know most of the details. For example, they still know that you have to go to school for 13 years to become an architect, then take your Abitur (Baccalaureate) and then study for another 4 years.

After the detailed discussion I encourage the children to paint a picture as a thank you for Maria.

Lina’s picture shows Maria entering a school where some things have broken down:

My impressions from our trip:

Only a few children were intensively involved in the conversations with Maria: Lina, Elise, Laura, Tina as well as Sven, Felix, Lutz and Moritz. These children followed the entire conversation and talked a lot themselves. The other children interfered only occasionally, but were probably overstrained at times or could not concentrate continuously.

But everyone thought it was nice and would go there again. The employees in the town house (municipality) had welcomed the children nicely, for example: „It is nice to see so many children in this house. We took the elevator several times and walked several stairs. The huge town house impressed the children. And Maria invited the children to an ice cream. The trip was also a wonderful experience for the children who didn’t want to know so much about Maria’s profession.

Playing

Now I offer a dance game round as compensation. I am not so sure whether the Soft Boys will accept this. The Power Girls love the use of music and are used to it.

First they should move freely to a very lively music (CD „Monsterquatsch“ – that means Monster Nonsense). I observe that the girls start off confidently and the boys first observe what is expected of them.

The particularly self-confident and versatilely interested boys quickly join in, the others need a little more time to observe. Since they can see that no one is watching or laughing at the other, but everyone is moving with a happy face to the music, they also join in.

Everyone can now adjust well to the task of pretending a movement, which the group then dances after. It becomes a funny, cheerful dance game that lasts almost half an hour until I finish it.

We sit in the circle once more and the children receive a worksheet: sketched houses where the craftsmen have forgotten some things; the children should supplement it.

Lina doesn’t have any problems with it:

You can find the sheet as a copy template in the Sheet Collection.

Here I can experience very different working attitudes:

The girls are used to looking at the sheet first and listening to the task. Most of the boys don’t listen any more as soon as they have received their sheet; they paint on it. When Elise calls into the room: „I know!“, they look up and listen again briefly. The boys are quicker to finish, but make more mistakes, which means they overlook more places that need to be added.
Some children keep coming back to me with their paper and asking if it’s finished. I encourage them to check for themselves whether everything is complete.

It takes about 20 minutes for everyone to finish their paper.

Now we write a letter of thanks to Maria together. Felix is already able to write and is happy to take on this task. The children say their ideas and we select a few sentences that Felix writes down.

The group is now, after almost one and a half hours, exhausted, the power of concentration is exhausted and so I write the last sentence of the letter.

Then followed some more club hours:

22nd club hour:
Visit of a museum („Museum Ludwig“ in Cologne) with guided tour. We look at sculptures of women (Nanas).
23rd club hour:
We look at the plans (floor plans) of the nearby primary school given to us by the architect.
We discuss our visit to the museum and paint our own „Nana“. (Nanas are large sculptures by the French artist Niki de Saint Phalle (1930-2002), who used the visual language of Pop Art to create sensual, colourfully designed voluminous female bodies.)
Game: Free movement to music.
24th club hour:
Karin’s mother (neurologist) visits us in the club. She tells us about her job and shows us how a neurological examination works.
25th club hour:
Together we summarize our experiences in the „Power Girls´Club“.
Game: Ground fighting on the mat.
26th club hour:
Farewell to the club for the girls who come to school.

Summary of my experiences with the „Power Girls´ Club“

All in all, the 32 club hours has occupied us for almost a whole kindergarten year.

Now there is some melancholy in me to let these so inquisitive, curious, happy and motivated girls go to school.
It was an exciting, inspiring year for me with the Power Girls, I had many positive experiences.

The view that girls in a same-sex group learn in a very cooperative, supportive, understanding and communicative way has been confirmed for me.

 

Certainly, the optimal size of the group (mostly 6 to 8 girls) contributed to a good learning atmosphere, a good togetherness and good learning habits.

Lina
was 5;4 years old at the beginning of the club, now she is 6;2.

She has gained the most self-confidence and courage to think and act independently through the club. She has become more open-minded and cheerful and can better perceive and live out her feelings. She can also approach others more openly and without hesitation.

Lina performed the school test with great self-confidence, speed and perfection. According to her mother, the doctor was surprised and enthusiastic about Lina and her way of working.

Lina hasn’t been a day child for a month; my colleagues and I are watching her gradually withdrawing into kindergarten. In addition, it seems that the imminent farewell to the kindergarten is very much on her mind.

Lina was originally supposed to visit our after-school care, but the parents finally decided against it. Lina has already said several times that unfortunately she would not go to the after-school care.
I think for Lina the group, the various incentives, impressions, possibilities and the exchange with other children and adults would be an enrichment.

Melisa
learned in the club that learning can be fun. Her remark „I don’t know that“, which was often heard in the past, is rarely spoken. She thinks seriously and can be sure that the other girls will listen to her.

Elise and Laura
are still lively, but they have also experienced: I don’t always have to speak first, I can also speak third, and I’m taken seriously and praised. They are very interested in learning to read and write.
Both have temperament, are performance-oriented and question everything that is not quite clear to them.

Tina
was often only fixated on the games and otherwise only used her minimum of skills and endurance, but she also bubbles with joy of life and curiosity.

Ayşe
has made hardly observable developmental steps. In my opinion, she needs special diagnostics and support.

Nina
is still the quietest, but her working posture is very good. She never disturbs and does not want to be the centre of attention. She accepts all offers with pleasure, she implements the tasks, but she does not make any demands of herself or the group.

After my experiences with the Power Girls´ Club, it is desirable to offer girls (besides the self-evident coeducation) also learning fields in which they are among themselves.

It enables them to make full use of their existing potential.

Read more about Lina:

Lina Has Pedagogic Talent

Power Girls´Club

What Is a Power Girl?

Carrot Experiment

 

Date of publication in German: 2013, September
Copyright © Gabriele Drescher-Krumrey, see Imprint.

 

 

 

Playing around on Paper

by Hanna Vock

 

These sheets were created during my practical work in the kindergarten, drawn freehand. (Exception: Labyrinth in a cake.) My collection included many beautiful tasks, which I do not publish here for copyright reasons.

Sometimes children just feel like solving such tasks. This means that the sheets should be accessible, but never should a child be pushed to work with them.

Here are four examples. You can find more below in the Sheet Collection.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Please copy from the Sheet Collection whatever you or your children like.

Editing examples:

1) Example of editing by a girl, 5;3 years old. Most children still have cognitive problems with mirroring at the age of six and would not be able to complete the drawings in this way – correctly.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2) A boy (4;1) first patiently painted beds for the dwarves. Eventually the desire left him and he also lacked the space, so he found two creative solutions:

 

He built a loft bed with a ladder for Nos. 4 and 3.
No. 1 „can sleep with the No. 2 in the big bed“.

 

 

 

 

 

 

3) A boy found the leaf pictured below when he was 3;6 years old. In response to his questions: „What is this? What can you do there?“ I explained to him that you can take a pencil and draw a path through the cake with it. That there is only one path – and that if you get lost, you have to turn around and go back until you can take another path. Thereupon he set to work.
The only help he needed was at the top right: „The path goes into the cream dab.“

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Half a year later, the boy (now 4;0) took the sheet again for editing. Now he could handle it all by himself and much faster than the first time:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It is important, especially for gifted children, that they do not receive such sheets too late:
At the age of five or six, the boy from the previous example would probably have found the cake maze very ludicrous.

The presentation of the examples should also help to make sensible use of the workbooks for preschool children that are available in large numbers on the market, i.e. to make a sensible selection and offer them in a way that suits the child’s cognitive development.

This can also be seen in the example
5). The same boy found the labyrinth below „baby easy“ at 4;1; he did it, but – unlike the cake labyrinth – he did not show a high level of concentration, enthusiasm or satisfaction at having done it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6) „Preschool notebooks“ are generally not given to children until they are five or six years old, if at all. Tasks in which numbered dots have to be connected to form a picture are popular.

This sheet was worked on by a much younger child: a boy aged 4;2. As he found it difficult to draw straight lines, he used a ruler for the first time in his life.

He dealt with numbers up to 20 at this time and very soon moved on to large numbers and arithmetic operations.

So now with 4;2 with him it was the right time for this sheet.

Rejection is widespread

I have found a wide variety of opinions on such „worksheets“ among kindergarten teachers.

Some reject them on principle because they seem too one-sided, since they only address cognitive interests. I was then surprised when the same colleagues, for example, had nothing against stilts – even though they (one-sidedly) only address the children’s motor interests. „But practising with catwalks is fun,“ one teacher replied when I pointed out this contradiction. There it was again, the prejudice that cognitive games can’t be fun for children.

I have met other colleagues who reject such sheets because they do not want to focus the children’s cognitive development on them, let alone reduce it.

But this is neither sensible nor necessary. They are gimmicks that excite and challenge some children – no more and no less:

Toys for the little „grey cells“, which the children
can choose very individually and which can be provided additionally without much effort or cost.

 

Date of publication in German: 2012, May
Copyright © Hanna Vock, see imprint.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sheet Collection

by Hanna Vock

This is how all houses should look like.
But the craftsmen have forgotten a few things. Can you finish the houses?

Paint a bed for each dwarf.

Distribute biscuits.
Each child wants to have the same number of biscuits. Distribute them fairly.

Lay lines.
Lay electricity cables (red), water pipes (blue) and sewage pipes (brown) in this house.

Generic terms
Tick or draw what belongs together.
And why do the things belong together?

Try not to draw over the lines.

Tension cords.

What does the mirror show?

What does the mirror show?

Labyrinth in a cake.

Date of publication in German: 2012, May
Copyright © Hanna Vock, see Imprint

Jasmin, 3;4 Years Old

by Martina Böckling

 

This article is the first part of a four-part practical report. All four parts together describe the advancement of little Jasmin, who is three years old at the beginning of the report and four years old at the end.

Due to her Tunisian roots, Jasmin struggled with the German language all the time, but nevertheless struck me very early on as being particularly gifted.

The first part of the report, which follows here, describes my observations at the beginning of the support project.

The other parts can be found here:

A 3-Years-Old Girl Wants to Write (German version)

Jasmin (4;7) Is Writing a Story

Three Little Girls Are the „Mind Group“ (German version)

See also:
Giftedness is Not a Happy Problem

Jasmin caught my attention shortly after joining our group because she showed a high level of social skills that seemed unusual for her age.

Now 3;4 years old, she cares a lot about other children. She helps them, observes very closely, gets to know a lot about what is going on in the group, intervenes in disputes and can remember many things that even we adults have difficulties with.
For example, Jasmin always knows which lunch box belongs to which child. We adults can’t remember because the children always have different lunch boxes with them, sometimes they even look similar, and on some days the children also have bread bags from the bakery.
If a lunch box cannot be assigned, we only need to ask Jasmin.

Jasmin notices when a child needs help and then helps immediately, even if she is busy herself.

She has high standards for her „works“, whether she is painting or doing handicrafts. She works very precisely and exactly, she is not always satisfied with the result, then she throws these „works“ into the rubbish.

Very often, Jasmin turns to the older children; she observes them and as soon as an opportunity presents itself, she makes contact. She seeks help from the bigger ones, but also offers her help when she thinks she can or knows better. Jasmin loves to listen to the older boys showing great patience.

She prefers to play table games alone or with an adult. When she plays with her peers, it is noticeable that she dominates the game.

She doesn’t put up with anything from the other children and asserts herself.
If Jasmin notices that a child is being teased or bickered with, she immediately comes to us and lets us know. If we don’t understand her, she drags us to the children in question and wants the situation resolved with our help.

In order to find out whether Jasmin has an above-average giftedness, I read through the Indicators of Possible Intellectual Giftedness and also filled out the „Gelsenkirchen Development Guide“.

Through intensive observation in the group during gymnastics and in the outdoor area, I noticed after completing the „Development Guide“ that Jasmin is very well developed in the area of „social skills“. With a few exceptions, her social behaviour is in the range „5 ½ years to school entry“.

Her fine motor skills are around 4 ½ years old and her gross motor skills are also well advanced.
Only in language she is not yet so far developed, which is due to the fact that Jasmin did not know a word of German when she came to the kindergarten at 2;8, and then she had to learn it. She talks a lot, very fast and is sometimes not understandable.
Her cognitive development, according to the development guide, is sometimes difficult to assess. Jasmin is definitely developed according to her age, but the problem with many points is that she does not understand the task, and this may also be due to her lack of knowledge of German.

First indications of a particular giftedness

I observed Jasmin a lot to find out where her abilities and talents lie.
In doing so, I found some correspondences in the Observational Chart by Joelle Huser:

Re A 1.)
General developmental advantage, great interest in letters and numbers:
1.
Jasmin, like all the other children, has noticed that there are always so-called round robin slips in our kindergarten, which we read through and sign in order to pass them on.
One morning she takes two pieces of paper, draws something on them, comes to me and explains that she has to take them away.

To my question: „Where to?“ Jasmin answers: „To Agnes“ (that’s the head of our kindergarten). Later I found one note on the desk in the office, the other in the kitchen on the sideboard.

When she comes back, she gets a shoebox, cuts off small pieces and draws the same signs on it again. When I ask her what she is doing, she explains that she has to write everything down. Then she runs back to the office, puts down one of the cardboards, draws new ones, takes them to the kitchen, cuts out new ones. The whole thing drags on for over an hour.

2.
There are rain trousers on a cupboard in the hallway and a note that says: „Whose clothes are these?“
Jasmin stops at the cupboard, takes the note, mumbles to herself and asks me, „What does it say?“ I read it to her, she repeats it.

3.
All the children and kindergarten teachers sit in the morning circle. While we teachers are using our song folders with the song texts, I see that Jasmin is sitting down with a piece of paper that she has drawn and written herself and keeps looking at it while singing.

Re A 2.)
Quick perception and curiosity:
1.
Sitting at the table with another child and playing the matching game „Flocards.“ Game description see here: Interesting Games.
Jasmin joins us and wants to work on it too. When the child has finished, Jasmin sits down in his place.
I explain to Jasmin how the game works and she puts two pieces down correctly. Along the way, she listens to what the other children next to her are talking about. She comments on what the children say and again puts down two pieces correctly. Then she gets up, goes to the windowsill, looks at the magnifying glasses that are lying there, comes back, and puts the pieces in the right place again.

This is the first time Jasmin has played this game and I have also played it with other children of a similar age, they did not understand the game.

Since we visited Cologne Zoo months ago, Jasmin has been showing us the animals we saw in books. She can name them, has also remembered details that she can tell us.

2.
In our project „Journey around the world“, the children learn a lot about the country they or their parents come from. Jasmin listens with interest, this day it is about Turkey. She says: „Everyone comes from other countries. Berkay and Umut in Turkey. Me Tunisia.“

Re A 3.)
Orientation to older children and adults:
1.
Most of the time Jasmin chooses adults to play table games with. Very rarely she plays with her peers, occasionally with older people and often she plays alone.

2.
Melisa, a child who will enrol school in this summer, wants to work on a worksheet with the other pre-school children. The preschool children present start working.
Jasmin also wants a worksheet, I give her one that is still left and observe what happens. It is a sheet with different shapes: Circle, triangle, square, which are to be cut out.

Jasmin sits down at the craft table and cuts out a piece, goes to the big ones and watches them.
She comes back, continues cutting while standing and says, „Like this!“ She puts pieces in front of her, goes back to the big kids, watches them, comes back, cuts and stamps her feet. She is apparently not satisfied with the result, crumples up two pieces and throws them into the bin.

Afterwards she cuts out another piece, gives it to me and says she’ll be at school soon.

Course leader’s comment (in IHVO Certificate Course):
It looks like she has compared herself with the older children and realised that she can do all that these children do. Her conclusion to come to school soon as well is logical.

3.
The prospective school children go with me to the perception room, Jasmin wants to go too, she says, „Me too big, going to school soon.“

4.
I sit down at a table with the observation folder to write something down, immediately Jasmin comes with a piece of paper and pen, sits down with it and starts to „write“. When I look at her, she smiles at me and says: „I’m writing too“.

Re A 4.)
Amazing memory ability:
1.
Jasmin plays the game „Cha memo“ with a trainee, this is a picture search game. You turn over cards and have to find a card with a chameleon in matching colour to a depicted object.

Although Jasmin keeps getting distracted, keeps looking around and listening to what is happening in the group room and also comments on it, she manages to win this game.

Course leader’s comment:
Apparently she had not yet reached her upper performance limit; because she did not make any mistakes and did not have to concentrate fully for that. If it had been really difficult for her, she would probably have focused her attention more on the game.

2.
We are sitting in the building corner, about to start a morning circle, when a colleague finds a so-called ziplock bag there. None of us three adults knows where the bag came from. I say to my colleague: „Throw it away.“ Jasmin says very energetically, „No, bag“. She runs to the toy cupboard, picks out a game and says, „Look!“, takes the bag and puts the game pieces in it. Then she puts the game away.

Re A 5.)
Long attention span and strong self-motivation:
When Jasmin is interested in something, she has a long attention span and wants to complete the task as well as possible.
Example: Making a globe.
The children make a globe out of papier-mâché and paint it blue. Then they paint the continents green. Finally, we put a cut-out man on the globe before it is hung up. This work takes three days.

Jasmin works very carefully, so she works longer and more extensively on the globe than all the other children who took part.
Nevertheless, she notices everything that happens in the group room and comments on it as she works.

Re A 6.)
Critical attitude towards one’s own performance – high demands on oneself.
1.
Jasmin judges her work very critically. If she doesn’t like something, she tries to improve it or she throws things away.
Example: Jasmin colours a mandala; then she looks at how Melisa and Kaynat have coloured their mandala (both are budding schoolchildren), takes her mandala and throws it in the rubbish.

2.
In Jasmin’s gymnastics group are the younger children. They are all playing with balls. Jasmin notices after a short time that she can throw but not catch.
When the trainee throws her the ball, she turns away and says, „No, not like that.“ Then she throws the ball and says, „Like this, I will.“

3.
At lunch she realises she can’t cut the meat, she tries for a moment, then gives up and leaves the meat.

Re E 1.)
Particularly good observation and perception skills:
1.
We are in the outdoor area, Jasmin comes running with the hood of a jacket and calls for me. I ask her who the hood belongs to and she says: „Umut“. Then she runs across the whole outdoor area with the hood in her hand and looks for the boy.

2.
Maxim, a new child, doesn’t know where to put his lunch box. Jasmin notices, takes him by the hand, pulls him to the shelf where the lunch boxes are and says: „Maxim, here.“ A short time later, when he wants to have breakfast – Jasmin is having breakfast herself – she gets up and gets him his lunch box.

3.
Jasmin sits at the table and kneads. At the breakfast table, a child has not put his plate away. I ask, „Who ate breakfast last?“ Jasmin answers, „Cansu“.

4.
A couple of three- and four-year-old children are sitting at the painting table. Denise is sticking buttons on a sheet of paper. She spreads a lot of glue over her sheet and the buttons don’t stick. Jasmin sees it, goes to the shelf with the craft supplies, cuts off a piece of paper, goes over to Denise and puts the piece of paper on top of all the glue. Then she pulls it off again and says: „Like this“ and goes back to her place, visibly satisfied.

5.
Amanda sits pale on a chair, Jasmin looks at her, goes to her and asks, „Amanda, sick?“ Amanda nods and points to her head. Jasmin comes to me and says: „Martina, Amanda sick, headache.“

Re E 2.)
High capacity for social adjustment:
It is noticeable that as soon as Jasmin is with children of the same age in the group, she sometimes hides her light under a bushel.

1.
Amanda asks for help with her puzzle, Jasmin also does the puzzle and says: „I can’t either“, although she has done this puzzle many times before.

2.
Sameer has difficulty putting away a game, Jasmin now also fails to put away her game and also asks for help.

Re E 4.)
Strong sense of justice – high sensitivity:
1.
Sameer is scolded for not tidying up the building corner. Now Jasmin comes to my colleague indignantly and scolds her in turn: „Sameer doesn’t have to clean up, Berkant does.“ She had noticed that Berkant had cleared out the things.

2.
Lisa’s nose is running, she doesn’t notice. Jasmin gets her a handkerchief and gives it to her.

3.
The five-year-old boys get into an argument about who can go to the gym. Berkay is excluded by the others, he starts crying. Three-year-old Jasmin goes up to them and says, „Berkay can go to the gym, Berkay is crying.“

4.
Jasmin is scolded by a colleague because she has been playing in the doll corner but it is not tidy. Jasmin starts to cry. It turns out that Jasmin cleaned up a lot by herself while the other children watched. She left the rest for the others.
I could give many more examples of the last points (E), but I have to limit them for reasons of space.

I want to find out more about Jasmin

Jasmin came to our kindergarten 11 months ago, at that time she couldn’t speak a word of German, she had to learn it first. She quickly acquired German skills, can find her way around the group and interact with the children and us kindergarten teachers.

Very often she still uses two-word sentences. When we teachers ask her more precisely because we don’t understand her, it can happen that she stops talking and seems unsure.

I have noticed that Jasmin is good with terms but refuses to talk in complete sentences, she often talks in sentence fragments.

I would like to find out if Jasmin is afraid to speak in front of the others, if she can’t do it or if she doesn’t use her skills.

To do this, I wanted to try to have a longer conversation with her. The day before, I had read the three-year-olds a picture book story of „Bobo Siebenschläfer“, this is a picture story with very few and simple texts from the children’s sphere of life; the children told what they saw in the pictures.

Since Jasmin likes to do things alone with me, I plan to go into the next room with her and talk to her about the story again in peace and quiet, without her being distracted by what is going on in the group.
Jasmin is aware of so much that is happening around her that I hope she will talk a lot more in the next room if it is just the two of us looking at the story again.

In the next room, Jasmin takes the book and turns the pages. I ask her if she can still remember the story and she mumbles something to herself that I can’t understand. When I ask again, she says, „Girl sing.“

I try to motivate her to talk again, but when she stands by the window and starts singing, it is clear to me that she has no interest in talking about the story.

She sits down again, grabs the book, flips the pages and says, „Drop Bobo“ (she means a mug of cocoa that Bobo dropped) flips through the book some more. I repeat her statement, she smiles at me.
Now she shows me the page with the information about the author and says: „Read it“.

I read a little about the author, Jasmin takes my pad and pen and starts drawing.
I ask: „What are you doing“? Her answer is: „Writing“.
„I’m writing: all the children there“. She draws signs and says, „Berin da, Berkay da, Yusuf da, Amanda da.“ She lists the names of all the children who are there.
She continues drawing and then says, „Sameer best friend, Denise best friend, Amanda too.“
Then she counts „1, 3, 5, 7“ and says, „All the children there.“

I point to a sign and ask, „What’s that called?“ She promptly replies, „Amanda.“ I point to another and she says the name: „Sameer“. Then she shows me where it says „Martina“.
Now she wants me to write too. I write down a few names and Jasmin looks at me, smiles and says, „Good.“

Evaluation and interpretation of the observations

Jasmin was neither interested in talking about the story nor in hearing a new one.
She decided that she wanted to do something else and showed me that she notices very precisely which children are present in the group and that she would like to write this down.
I did not achieve my goal of finding out whether Jasmin can also talk in complete sentences, but she showed me once again how good her observation skills are and that she has a great interest in writing.

Through the observations, I noticed that Jasmin has high expectations of herself.

She avoids all things that she feels she cannot yet adequately cope with.
Jasmin’s command of the German language was not such that she could talk to me about the story, so she quickly deflected and picked up what she was sure she could handle.
For only learning German for a few months, she can already do it well, but I suspect she perceives how well the other children speak German.
I think the whole situation was a bit unfortunate. Jasmin did enjoy going into the next room alone with me, but she didn’t want to talk about the story. She deflected, and when I responded, she showed me her observational skills. She counted up all the children present without being able to see them and wrote down their names.

„Writing“ gives Jasmin a lot of pleasure, she is the only child in our group who makes an attempt to write the children’s names. You have to remember, she is only 3;4 years old.
At the same time, it became clear to me: What Jasmin doesn’t want, she doesn’t do. I have experienced this behaviour when dealing with the mother, in the kindergarten she has not shown it yet.

Comment by the course leader:
Perhaps Jasmin also „smelled a rat“ and felt that she was being put to the test. An alternative strategy could have been to deepen a thread of conversation which she in turn picks up. In any case, a strong tendency towards self-determination is evident.

Further course of events

One day later I played the game „Ratzolino“ with her and Amanda.
There are small wooden objects on the table, such as car, carrot, squirrel, etc., not so common terms – and Jasmin was able to name them all. I told a little story in which the objects appeared. Jasmin and Amanda were supposed to quickly take the objects as soon as they were named.
Of the 17 items, Jasmin grabbed 14.
I didn’t expect that, Jasmin knows a lot more terms than she shows us in everyday life. I suspect that we often underestimate her and also underchallenge her.
I will take this into account in the next offers.

I had a surprising experience three days later. I sat down on our sofa in the reading corner. Immediately Jasmin came, grabbed the book „Regenbogenfisch“ (Rainbow Fish) and sat down with it.
She showed me the first page and said, „Rainbow fish, lots of scales.“ On several pages she showed and told me what she saw.

This was the first time Jasmin had taken a picture book and talked about it. Maybe my picture story did contribute after all.
In summary, I can say that we will have a few more surprises with Jasmin, and I am looking forward to that.

Date of publication in German: 2015, February
Copyright © Martina Böckling, see imprint

 

A Story Written by a Seven-Year-Old

by Hanna Vock

 

When I was still working in kindergarten, a girl who was now in Grade 2 gave me the following story, which I find not only well written, but also demonstrates a fine sense of humour.

Here again in typed form, for easier reading (and below that the translation into English and the comments of the author):

Ich wohnte in einer sehr gepflegten Wohnung mit einem Mann zusammen. Er verwöhnte mich sehr. Doch eines Tages erschrak ich, denn ich hörte mein Herrchen zu seinem Freund sagen: „Ich will den alten Dackel verkaufen!“ Aber immerhin sagte er: „Für 3000 Mark.“ Ich war also doch noch etwas wert
Der Freund sagte darauf: Du bist wohl verrückt! 3000 Mark bekommst du nie für einen Dackel!“
Lange Zeit hörte ich nichts mehr von dem Thema. Doch ungefähr nach 3 Wochen sah ich, wie mein Herrchen einen Zettel schrieb. Darauf stand:
Junger, munterer Dackel für 3000 Mark zu verkaufen!

Weiter konnte ich nichts lesen, weil er mich aus dem Zimmer brachte. Diesen Zettel wollte er wahrscheinlich am Supermarkt aufhängen.

Nach 2 Tagen kam der erste Bewerber. Mein Herrchen fragte zuerst nach dem Geld. Der Bewerber sagte: „Ich habe es nicht in bar, aber ich habe zwei Hühner im Wert von je 1500 Mark dabei.“

Mein Herrchen ging doch tatsächlich auf den Vorschlag ein zu tauschen. Ich war empört!

 

English version:
I lived in a very neat flat with a man. He spoiled me very much.
(Here, I’m sure many readers think the narrator is a woman, and one wonders how the seven-year-old gets such ideas…. Maybe it was even intentional to mislead the reader).

But one day I was startled, for I heard my master say to his friend, „I want to sell the old dachshund!“
(Now it becomes clear who is telling the story…)

But at least he said, „For 3,000 marks.“ So I was worth something after all.

(Here we witness an old dachshund trying to console himself).

The friend said: „You must be crazy! You’ll never get 3000 marks for a dachshund!“
For a long time I heard nothing more about the subject.

But about 3 weeks later I saw my master writing a note. It said:
„Young, lively dachshund for sale for 3000 marks!“

(How businesslike! The old dachshund is advertised as young and lively, which suggests that the seven-year-old author has some critical knowledge of the world).

I couldn’t read anything else because he took me out of the room. He probably wanted to post this note at the supermarket.

(The story develops and stays consistent with the dachshund’s thoughts…)

After 2 days the first applicant came. My master first asked for the money. The applicant said, „I don’t have it in cash, but I have two chickens worth 1500 marks each with me.“

(A surprising, funny turn of events…)

My master actually went along with the suggestion to swap. I was outraged!

(The story was told consistently from the dachshund’s point of view right to the end and was well to the point. Amazing!)

 

Date of publication in German: 2016, November
Copyright © Hanna Vock

 

Jasmin (4;7) Is Writing a Story

by Martina Böckling

 

Jasmin is now 4;7 years old, she likes to visit the kindergarten and has made great progress in her development.

She learns a lot about the group events and also notices events that even we kindergarten teachers don’t register.

Jasmin always amazes me with her good memory, she remembers things that we adults quickly forget. She rapidly recognizes and remembers recurring structures and rituals, helping children who have forgotten them.

Jasmin is able to perceive and respond to the needs and sensitivities of others very well. She shows consideration, offers help and explains to the other children what is going on.

…in a nutshell…

Jasmin wants to continue learning how to write what she started in the previous project.
The author combines this interest with the idea of writing a story with Jasmin in which Jasmin can express her own wishes; because she cares a lot about others, but rarely expresses what she wants herself.

Since Jasmin loves princesses and would probably prefer to be one herself, the project begins with various picture books about princesses.
Finally, Jasmin develops and writes her own story.
The author decides in favour of an individual grant in order to be able to deal exactly with Jasmin.

Read more about Jasmin:

Jasmin, 3;4 Years Old

A 3-Years-Old Girl Wants to Write (German version)

Three Little Girls Are the „Mind Group“ (German version)

Founding the topic

As well as Jasmin can put herself into others‘ shoes, she seems to perceive and express little of her own needs. I’ve rarely seen Jasmin express herself in terms of what she wants. For example, she takes games, but rarely says what she wants.

Jasmin likes to be involved in everything, but is always busy taking care of other children’s well-being.

She only insists that she regularly „works“ with me alone or in a small group. This is important to her and she expresses it very energetically.

If Jasmin is not well, something does not suit her or she has other difficulties, she shows physical symptoms such as headaches or stomach pains. It can also happen that she gets tired. Although these symptoms have decreased recently, they have not yet completely disappeared.

It is noticeable that this does not occur when she is challenged or when she appears very satisfied.

Due to her good ability to observe, Jasmin reacts much more sensitively to people or situations than the other children in the group.

In conversations with her mother it became clear to me that Jasmin at home does not find the peace and balance she needs. Due to a lot of visiting relatives, who often stay for days in the small apartment, and due to problems the mother has, there is a restless climate.
Jasmin’s good manners towards her relatives are very important to her mother; Jasmin’s needs and desires are apparently not well received. Despite the often difficult circumstances, it is important to the mother that Jasmin is well and she tries to fulfill many material wishes.

However, the mother mentioned that Jasmin is often very cheeky at home, a behaviour we don’t even know from kindergarten.

I think it is important for Jasmin to be able to express her wishes in the kindergarten and to assert them more strongly.

Jasmin herself keeps saying that she wants to „work“ with me. By this she means that she writes. The normal group routine with all its offers is not enough for her.

I made various offers, she was enthusiastic about them, but again and again there was a very energetic desire to continue writing.

I wanted to fulfill this wish for her. At the same time it was important to me that Jasmin learns to express and enforce her wishes so that she no longer needs the physical complaints.

In order to challenge Jasmin, I thought about thinking up a story with her, in which her wishes also appear, and writing it down.
Since Jasmin could only write her name independently until the beginning of the project, but she had already had the previous experience of the sounds and letters (see: A 3-Years-Old Girl Wants to Write (German version), I wanted to find out what Jasmin could achieve.

Goals that should be achieved

    • Jasmin is able to express their wishes and needs.
    • Jasmin is able to enforce them.
    • Jasmin develops her writing skills.
    • Jasmin continues to gain self-confidence.

While in the last projects the focus was always on small group work, I have decided to do an individual support with Jasmin in this project.

On the one hand, I would like to give Jasmin the peace and quiet she has neither at home, nor in the group, nor in the small group.

In the small group it is Raman and Berin who talk a lot and are able to speak faster than Jasmin.

Since this time it is important to me that Jasmin recognizes their needs, individual support is important.
Jasmin dares to do a lot more if she doesn’t have to be considerate, and in addition, Berin quickly drives her over the mouth. In such moments Jasmin withdraws and sometimes cries.

I also noticed that Jasmin adapts very much to the small group. In my opinion she doesn’t really show what she is capable of.
She has a lot of consideration for Amanda, and she doesn’t dare to do much with the others.
Jasmin has shown in recent projects that she can be much more persistent than the other children in the small group.
This led to her getting into an argument with Berin every now and then.

It is important to me that Jasmin does not have to deal with the other children in this project work.

Comment of the course leader:
A sensible approach.

I myself can adjust better to Jasmin and challenge her when I am alone with her. Since I have built up a very good and intensive relationship with her, I hope that she will now be able to show what she still has to offer.

See also:

One-on-One Advancement, Mentoring

Preliminary considerations

Over a year ago, the „Gelsenkirchen Development Guide“ was filled out for Jasmin. Now I want to use this questionnaire to check how far Jasmin has developed in the areas of language, cognitive development, social competence, fine motor skills and gross motor skills since then.

In the evaluation it becomes clear that Jasmin is now developed in the (German) language according to age. In everyday life, however, it becomes clear that Jasmin is still missing many terms and that even the sentences are often not yet correctly formed.

In the area of cognitive development, it is noticeable that she (at the age of 4;7) shows  more than half of the skills that apply to children from 5 1/2 years to school enrolment.

What is striking about social competence is that it meets almost all the requirements of the category of 5 1/2 years olds until they start school.

Even in the case of fine motor skills, some requirements can already be fulfilled by her up to the time of enrolment.
In gross motor skills it is developed according to age.

Questionnaire on Child´s Interests

In order to have a good starting point for the new project, I wanted to go through the Questionnaire on Child´s Interests again with Jasmin.

Since Jasmin tends to distract attention in conversations very quickly, I decided to grab her by her strength so that she could concentrate on our conversation.

The task was: „Jasmin, listen carefully and think about the questions“.
Since Jasmin likes to think, she was there with zeal. After every question she answered, she crossed out the question number with a pen.

Contrary to the first processing of the questionnaire – about a year ago – it became clear that she now loves to play regular games and to write.
The number of her playmates has doubled and writing continues to be her favourite activity.
While she used to call „painting“ her skill, today she can „write and learn“.
Her wish is to be able to „think“ even better.

Comment of the course leader:
However, this is a typical desire for a gifted child. At this age, thinking itself is only an object of one’s own thinking for very few children.

She finds it nice to play alone in kindergarten and doesn’t like it when big girls annoy her when she plays in the movement hall or in the big corridor. Last year, she found puzzling difficult, now she finds it difficult when she misspelled letters.

When asked what annoys her, it was Amanda a year ago. Today she is annoyed that Raman only wants to play with Yusuf. When I asked her what was bothering her about it, it became clear that she wanted to play with Raman herself.

Her favourite toy is everything to do with princesses (she told me many things she would like to have in this context).
She also likes to see princesses on TV, preferably when they dance.

I didn’t get an answer to the question of what she would still like to learn or what she is proud of. Jasmin smiled – probably because she already gave the answer, she wants to write and think and nothing more!

Later she wants to become a dancer – and when she meets an old woman, she would ask her for letters.

When I look at these answers, Jasmin expressed her wishes very clearly.
She wants to write more, want to play with Raman and she wants to think more.

After this conversation Jasmin left the room very content, not without encircling all the fields on the sheet „What things do you like to do?“ with the symbol for yes. She considered every question very carefully and then circled it.

Naturalistic observation

Jasmin, Berin and Juline (all similar ages) sit at the table in the next room and wait for lunch.

Juline and Berin talk and get louder and louder. Juline has a very high voice, which increases in pitch and Berin finally screams to say something. Jasmin becomes more and more silent and says nothing more. After some time she starts crying, it takes some time until the others notice it.

Here it becomes clear that Jasmin cannot tolerate too much volume well, but is not able to say that the screaming disturbs her. Instead, she cries.

See also: Modes of Observation

Participant observation

Berin, Jasmin and I sit at the table in the group room and play the „beaver game“. The game is about pulling blocks from a stack without the beaver lying on it falling down.
Jasmin pulls a block, the stack collapses and the beaver falls down.
Berin starts: „Well, Jasmin, you should have thought better about that, you pulled out the wrong block. So, you see, this happens, now everything is broken. Only because of you. You have to think better.“
Jasmin listens to the talk in amazement, gets sad and says: „Yes, that’s true.“ She seems very unhappy.

Here it becomes clear that Jasmin is scolded in an inappropriate way, but she is not able to defend herself. Instead, she becomes sad and also agrees.

Evocative observation

Jasmin sits at the painting table and writes her name, and she paints circles. After a few minutes she stops and looks at her paper.
I sit opposite her, watch her and when she notices that I am watching her, she smiles at me.
„Jasmin, what are you doing“, I ask.
„Martina, I want to think.“
„What would you like to think about?“
„I want to think of a princess“, replies Jasmin.
I ask: „What would you like to think about a princess?“
Jasmin: „Princess is beautiful and can do anything and may wish for anything.“

„Would you like to hear something about princesses and talk about it?“ I ask.
She rejoices and shouts: „Yes, princess.“
I promise her.

With this observation it becomes clear that for Jasmin a princess has everything that she would like or would like to have and dares to do.

That’s why I decided that the content of the project should be about princesses.

Course of the project

In order to give Jasmin the reliability to work with her and to get her consent for individual support, I said to her:
„Jasmin, I know that you want to work and learn a lot. Unfortunately, we don’t manage in the group that you can work as much as you want. What do you think if we both would pull ourselves out of the group room more often and think and work together?“

Jasmin shines and shouts: „Yes, both of us, we are working, great, Martina, great!“
She jumps through the group room and shouts and sings: „I’m going to work with Martina, elelele.“

Picture book view

The book: „I want friends!“ from the Little Princesses series by Tony Ross

The story is about the little princess who enroles school expecting to find many friends. All the children she approaches reject her and she experiences that nobody wants to play with her. Other children are similar and so all „children without friends“ sit, eat and play together.
The little princess invites all „children without friends“ to her home. Now the other children also want to come, the princess puts on her infamous, sinister face and allows it generously.

I chose this book because it is about friendship, but also about rejection. I know that Jasmin would like to be friends with Raman, and I wanted to talk to her about it.

In the course of the picture book view, Jasmin told me that Raman and Yusuf don’t let her play along more often and that she thinks it’s stupid.
She is very interested in the story and when the „children without friends“ eat and play together, she looks at me and says: „But Martina, they are friends now“.
She shakes her head at the fact that the „children without friends“ don’t understand that they are all friends after all.

Jasmin describes very precisely what happens in the book, but also wants me to read her every page.
When all the children show up in the castle and the little princess introduces her friends to her bewildered mother, Jasmin laughs and says: „Home is nice to have friends.“
When I asked her if she would take friends home with her, she laughed: „Martina, you can’t go, there’s no room.“

The next morning Jasmin asks me if she can play outside. To my question: „With whom then?“ she smiles at me and whispers: „With Raman“.
It was clear to me that he didn’t know anything about it yet, because he was playing with Yusuf in the construction corner.
The interesting thing for me was that Jasmin never goes outside to play unless the whole group goes outside. But she knew that Raman liked to play outside.
I was curious to see what she would do now.

Jasmin went to the building corner and said, „I’m going out. Raman, do you want to go?“
Yusuf said to her, „Raman is playing with me.“
Jasmin replied, „We can all go outside.“
Yusuf: „I can go out with Raman.“
Jasmin explained: „But I’ve already asked, I can go and you can go.“

Raman looks at his building, to Jasmin he says: „Okay, let’s all go outside, but we still have to clean up.“
They started to clean up, Jasmin was visibly happy. Unfortunately, during the tidying up process, new game situations developed, so that the children didn’t manage to get out in the end.

At least Jasmin started the attempt. She thought about how she could get Raman to go outside with her.
Jasmin has clarified that she can go outside, she has invited Raman and also Yusuf (she knew that she can’t persuade Raman to do it alone).
Jasmin took the initiative, it was very thoughtful and it did her good that Raman wanted to go out with her.

Stories from: „Many Little Princess Stories“
by Sabine Cuno and Stefanie Dahle

Three times I withdrew with Jasmin to read her short stories about different princesses.
She listened very carefully, she thought along and I had interesting conversations with her.
We thought about what it would be like if Jasmin was a princess and she told:

– Then she would be called Arielle.
– Then everyone should come to her home to celebrate her birthday.
– Then she would have a big princess room, a ring, lots of toys, lots of barbies.
– She would live in a castle right next to the kindergarten.
– She could play piano.
– She would sleep all alone.

Later she told me that she wanted to have more friends.

She asked me: „Martina, Uschi is your friend, isn’t she?“

I affirmed a little perplexed and explained to her that Uschi was my work colleague and my girlfriend.
I was puzzled because even colleagues had not yet noticed this.
This showed me once again how exactly Jasmin perceives and can classify her observations.
She wanted to know why we are friends and I told her that Uschi and I do a lot of things together and that we often like the same things.

Jasmin asked exactly what we do together and also how we make contact after the kindergarten. Her questions were very concrete and I tried to give her concrete answers.
Jasmin wanted to understand exactly how the friendship with Uschi works, she wanted to have everything explained very precisely.

I have never had such a conversation with a child of this age. Her exact asking about a friendship relationship showed me how far and how much Jasmin already thinks.

Comment of the course management:
… and reflect, question, analyse and get information from a more experienced person (you). Reflections, which occur with most at the earliest with puberty.

All in all I can say that we had a lot of fun and laughed a lot.

After these conversations she was always in a very good mood and jumped into the group room. She answered the other children’s questions about what we were doing: „Martina and I, we think“.
From the other children an „Aha“ came, but none of them asked more precisely.

During the last conversation Jasmin decided that she also wanted to have girlfriends and she made it clear:

– We don’t always do what Berin, Amanda and Juline want.
– Everyone can decide.
– I can also do something on my own.

She now had very concrete ideas of what she wanted, and I was curious to see how she would implement them.

Creation of her own „Princess Story“

I suggested that Jasmin could write her own story.
My thought was that she could incorporate her wishes there and also make progress in learning to write.

She was very happy about the idea. She was thinking out loud about what to include in the story, while I was noting down key points.
We met twice in total to write the story.

We thought about short sentences and I wrote the words to her. Jasmin then wrote them off, always including the sounds. Example: The word „ARIELLE“.
An A like Affe (monkey), then an R like Raman, an I like Igel (hedgehog), an E like Esel (donkey), an L like lamp, another L and another E like Esel (donkey).

Just this writing with naming of the letters made Jasmin much joy. She expressed the wish to include „princess stickers“ in the story.

At the first page of the story she asked me to write three words, she said that she couldn’t.
She then wrote all the following words herself.

I read to her what she had thought about. Some things she didn’t want to have in the story anymore, other things we had to add, for example „Arielle likes shoes“.

On both days she wrote two pages in half an hour and wanted to stop afterwards. She ran with the leaves into the group room and proudly showed them around.

I suggested that she laminate the leaves and bind them as a book so that she could read the story in the final circle. Jasmin happily accepted the idea.

Review of objectives

Jasmin has achieved the goals I set for her. From the beginning Jasmin had clear wishes and needs, which she was aware of, but she could not express them and enforce them.

To goal 1:
Jasmin is able to express her wishes and needs.

Jasmin was able to perceive the sensitivities of others well and also to respond to them. She showed consideration, offers of help and a lot of understanding.
Her interpersonal intelligence is apparently very pronounced.

Her own sensitivities were expressed in crying or headaches and stomach pains, sometimes she moaned about tiredness.

In the conversations with her, which were very intensive and long, she showed great perseverance, even though it was always difficult for her to enter the discussion due to her (German) language difficulties.

At the beginning of the project she could not and did not want to talk about her wishes. The „medium“ princess was well suited to get into conversation with her.
She was very interested in the topic. With time she became more and more open and dared to ask questions.

The entire kindergarten group noticed that Jasmin now dared to express wishes and needs.
Examples:
1.
When the lunch was distributed, Jasmin said to our trainee: „I don’t like chips, I want more sausage, also salad.“ Before she always let herself be given everything.

2.
Jasmin plays a memory game with Nele. Berin comes to the facility and interrupts both of them constantly. Again and again she speaks to Jasmin.
After a short time Jasmin says that she now wants to play with Nele and doesn’t pay any attention to Berin anymore.

To goal 2:
Jasmin is able to enforce her needs and wishes.

Since Jasmin could not express her wishes, it was also difficult for her to implement them.
The other children or even adults could not fulfill her wishes, which probably led to frustration situations for Jasmin again and again.

It is still the case today that Jasmin does not express many of her wishes and needs, but she has begun to do so.

Examples:
1.
Jasmin told her mother that she needed books. The mother explained that Jasmin had enough books (she has books about ships, cars and fish). Jasmin made it very clear to her mother that she needed other books and suggested that she buy the books together.

Comment of the course leader:
We don’t know what the financial situation of the family is like. Such a direct demand is certainly a great step forward for Jasmin and desirable.
But if this embarrasses her mother, then it would be important to act as a mediator. You should explain that – regardless of the solution found – it is an important developmental step for Jasmin to be able to be so demanding.

It would be important not to leave the mother alone with it. Otherwise she might think at the end that you would make her daughter „rebellious“.

Can the children borrow picture books from you (e.g. over the weekend)?
To supervise such a borrowing library could perhaps also be a task for Jasmin. And she would get a lot of „reading material“.

2.
Jasmin wanted to listen to a CD together with Amanda in the next room and dance to it.

Kevin, one of the elder and very, very energetic boys, decided that he wanted to go to the next room with his friends.
I heard a loud discussion and stood at the door.
Jasmin had stood up in front of Kevin and said: „Kevin, I want to dance with Amanda, I was here first.“
Amanda confirmed this. Kevin yelled out loud: „I want to play here!“

Jasmin saw me and asked: „Martina, I’m here first?“
I made it clear that she was first in the next room and escorted Kevin and his friends out.
This was the first time that Jasmin prevailed over Kevin.

3.
Jasmin, Berin and Juline played up in the big hall. After being downstairs for some time, two girls from another group complained that the three hadn’t cleaned up.
My colleague, who was standing at the door, looked at our girls questioningly.
Jasmin replied, „No, we cleaned up our things, you’ll have to clean up the rest“.
The girls left again.

All in all, one can say that Jasmin is well on her way to fulfilling her wishes and needs.

Goal 3:
Jasmin develops her writing skills further

Jasmin was able to copy her name and a few words before this project.
Although it wasn’t easy for her, she wrote the story on two days.
She repeated the letters over and over again and after some time she could write an I, an E, an L and an A without having to look at the letters.
On the first day she wanted to stop after one page. I said to her that she could still do a little.

After two pages her attention could no longer be drawn to the story, she got up, changed the subject, went through the room and made it clear to me that she wanted to stop now.
The same thing happened on the second day.

When the story was finished, she wanted to write a few more words the next day.
She wrote the words: KETTE (chain), MAMA, UHR (clock), dad, princess, melody, ARIELLE and SCHLOSS (castle).
I prescribed these words to her after she had given them to me.

To goal 4:
Jasmin continues to gain self-confidence.

Jasmin has gained a lot of self-confidence. She is able to assert some of her wishes, she is confident with Berin and Juline and dares to contradict the big boys.
I could see that she only looked at a dispute between Amanda and Berin without intervening. She herself painted at the painting table while the two were arguing over colored pencils. Normally she would have intervened and tried to clarify the situation, but this time she only listened and watched briefly to continue her work.

Another time two children fought over a chair. Jasmin was sitting at this table and earlier she would have tried to settle the dispute.
This time she smiled and started counting the children: „Ene, mene, miste…“.
The two children were so surprised that they gave up fighting over the chair.

At the moment she often seems to be doing something on her own – without the restlessness she used to show. Jasmin used to start a lot without finishing anything, but now she seems much calmer.
She plays alone, but she also plays with other children just as often. Both are apparently okay for her.
This was one of the wishes she had for herself and which she has now clarified for herself.

On the whole, I can say that Jasmin has made great progress through individual employment, she has been able to open up and develop. No other child hindered her and she was able to develop her abilities.

Comment of the course leader:
We think it’s very good that at this point in Jasmin’s development you decided to do one-to-one support. It was obviously the method what she needed now to move forward.

Planning for the future

The topic „writing“ is definitely still important for Jasmin.

I will create a box with words that Jasmin and the other children in the writing group can take and work with again and again.
At the „Didacta“ education fair, I bought strips of letters. Here the letters are placed one after the other on a strip. A picture is drawn for each letter, for example A – Apfel (apple) or B – Birne (pear).

I will make these stripes and also their writing exercise booklets directly accessible to the children. So now that the children have received a lot of instruction, they are no longer dependent on me to take time for them.

Comment of the course leader:
The best teacher makes himself superfluous over time.

    • This gives Jasmin the opportunity to develop her letter writing skills, and she doesn’t have to wait for us to withdraw.
    • Letter games will be used to consolidate and develop what we have learned.
    • Jasmin will present her story to all children in the final circle, she is looking forward to it.
    • 4-years-old Jasmin will be present at the excursions with the children who enrole school this summer (as well as Raman and Yusuf).

All in all I can say that Jasmin is developing rapidly and is now showing her talents.

At the moment she is not so restless anymore and shows no physical weaknesses, the tiredness has disappeared.

Comment of the course leader:
The somatisation has obviously become superfluous.

For Jasmin it is very important to continue to challenge and encourage her, this can be done on individual basis well as in small groups.

Since Jasmin has just enjoyed the „thought conversations“ and that they helped her on, I will take some time every now and then to withdraw with her.

See also: Three Little Girls Are the „Mind Group“. (German version)

 

Date of publication in German: 2015, March
Copyright © Martina Böckling, see Imprint

And What They Think!

by Hanna Vock

 

Here are some remarkable examples of what young children think:

1.

A boy (2;9) witnesses his mother noticing that her backpack has been stolen. She is upset and explains to him that a mean person just took the backpack away and that this is stealing. She explains to him what all was in the backpack and that she misses the things.

After a short time, the boy says, „If we see a man with a backpack, we’ll take it away too.“ The mother replies that they won’t do that because they are not thieves who just take things from others. The boy thinks again and expresses a new thought, „But if we see the man who has our backpack, we’ll take it away from him.“

The next day he asks, „Is the backpack back?“

2.

Anna, just turned four, hears an eight-year-old after-school child say, „But I always want to live. I never want to die.“ – Anna says, „But then we’ll all be dead, all your friends, and then you’ll be all alone.“

The after-school child: „It doesn’t matter, then I’ll just be alone.“ – Anna: „But it’s unfair if we all have to die and you don’t.“

After-school child: „Everyone can go on living forever.“ – Anna: „But there aren’t that many houses … and not that much food.“

3.

A cognitively and linguistically highly gifted child is conspicuous by an early excellent command of language. She uses her language skills to express complex thoughts. Example:

Evelin surprised me at the age of 3;5 in kindergarten with a statement that is very unusual for three-year-olds. I had read the fairy tale „Hansel and Gretel“ to Evelin and three other three-year-old children. Evelin did not know the fairy tale beforehand, which her mother also confirmed when asked. Evelin’s comment after the end of the fairy tale:

„But why do the children go back to their father, there is nothing to eat there. They could stay in the witch’s house, the witch is dead. …The father was evil.“

With this statement, Evelin not only shows that she has grasped the content of the fairy tale right away. She also demonstrates an independent and flexible thinking ability that is astonishing for a three-year-old. She is able to detach herself from the story and form her own thoughts about it, which contradict the message of the story.

In her statement, a concept is already recognizable that trusts children to make independent and autonomous decisions: Hansel and Gretel should not do the traditionally obvious thing (quickly return home to their parents), but the unconventional, but logically obvious thing, namely, stay where there is food and no evil adult is up to mischief.

Evelin clearly judges the father’s behavior as evil. When I ask her, „Why is the father evil?“ she answers, „Because he left his children alone in the wood. He could have said to the mother, ‚No, we won’t do that.'“

Evelin’s fluency is not only sufficient to fully grasp the fairy tale, but also to accurately express her own thoughts.

For comparison:

The other three-year-old (cognitively and linguistically normally developed) children answered the following questions:

Kindergarten teacher: „What kind of animal does the witch have?“

Child 1: „A cat.“ / Child 2: „And birds.“

Kindergarten teacher: „What do the birds do?“

Child 2: „They are with the witch.“

Kindergarten teacher: „And do they eat anything?“

Child 2: „No. Yes, they do! They eat worms.“

Kindergarten teacher asks child 3: „What do you think: do the birds in the story eat anything else?“

Child 3: „Yes.“

Kindergarten teacher: „What is it that they eat?“

Child 3: „I don’t know.“

Evelin:
„They pick up the bread crumbs and that’s why the children can’t find their way. Because the bread crumbs aren’t there anymore. The birds ate them.“

Kindergarten children can also deviate completely from the usual age norms in other areas of development, for example, in the logical-mathematical area:

4.

The situation:

The Advent calendar hangs on the window of the group room. A bag is tied to it for each child. Every day, a different child is allowed to cut off his or her bag and unwrap it.

The day before, the children draw lots to see who will get their turn. In a box, each child has a card with a picture that also marks his or her coat hook. Every day, a child draws a card from this box without looking. The child whose card is drawn gets his turn the next day and is then allowed to get its bag.

Daniel (3;5) and Leo (3;6) are experiencing this annual procedure for the first time. Leo is a normally developed and well supported child, Daniel is highly gifted, with a preference for quantities, numbers and logical connections, which is always noticeable later in the kindergarten routine. When I now ask, „Well, whose turn is it today?“ the older children know and call out the name. Daniel then remains calm and composed, Leo is deeply disappointed every time and keeps asking me, „Why don’t you take my turn?“

One day I ask the two boys to stay there for a moment and (before the draw for the next day) I first ask Leo the question, „Well, Leo, do you think it will be your turn tomorrow?“ Leo (beaming): „Yessss!“ Question: „Why do you think that?“ Leo: „Because I want to.“

Daniel answers the same question, „May be, may not be.“ And when asked, „What do you mean?“ Daniel: „Well, if I’m drawn afterwards, I’ll get my turn, and if I’m not, I won’t. …But maybe I’ll get my turn last of all.“

Leo shows a completely age-typical reaction: His thinking is dominated by his strong desire to finally get his turn. Every day he is excited and expectant and then disappointed and increasingly angry with me as his teacher. He demands that I take his turn, so I end up cheating to relieve Leo and his relationship with me. The oldest children smile indulgently and understandingly at this.

Leo does not yet understand the principle of coincidence. He also does not understand the older children’s attempts at explanation, but feels partially comforted by their attention. He is also mentally active and tries to explain what is happening. However, since the coincidence principle is not available to him as an explanatory pattern and he also does not yet have a clear overview of the time relationships between the terms „yesterday“, „today“ and „tomorrow“, he can only explain the fact that it is not his turn again in such a way that someone has arbitrarily prevented him from getting his turn just now. Obviously, the kindergarten teacher, as the most powerful person present, is held responsible for this.

Daniel, on the other hand, clearly sees through the system. He, too, shows disappointment again and again (over the next few days), but expresses it differently: „Bad luck again!“ / „Oh no, can’t someone draw my picture?“

5.

Example from kindergarten teacher Beate Kroeger-Müller:

A mother on parenting duty at the kindergarten asks a four-year-old child, „What are you thinking about right now?“ The child is silent. A preschooler (5;6) observes the situation and asks the four-year-old, „Do you actually know what thought means?“ The child asked answers in the negative.

I repeat the question to the eight children sitting at the table sewing with me. „What are thoughts?“ As they weave and sew, a comfortable restlessness arises within the small group. Immediately, associations with this word are voiced. And in less than three minutes, this little conversation emerged:

Boy (5;6): „Thoughts are ideas in my head.“

Girl (6;3): „Thoughts are hopes inside me.“

Girl (5;8): „Thoughts can also be dreams!“

Boy (6;1): „Thoughts are when you worry.“

Boy (5;9): „Thoughts are always there and go away.“

Boy: (5;3): „Thoughts are always there – when you think – otherwise not.“

Boy (5;4) years: „Thoughts consist of 8 letters. First the G then the E and D and A and N and K and E and finally an N.  So thoughts are just inside the brain.“
〈Thoughts = Gedanken in German.〉

Boy (5;8): „Thoughts are the ideas in my head, which are actually quite normal for me, because they are always there, even when I dream. I’m of the opinion that you can’t live without having thoughts.“

The preschooler who initiated the exchange of ideas states with satisfaction at the end, „So many answers and all of them are correct, that’s what I like best about the word.“
Everyone turns back to their handiwork and pretends nothing happened.

What I think: Nice explanations from six preschoolers and two middle-aged ones – and only three gifted among them.

These and even more examples can be found in:

Complex Thinking

Original, Unusual Thinking

Rapid Recognition of Patterns and Rules

Great Interest in Systems and Logical Relations

Divergent Thinking

On Gifted Pre-School Children´s Reasoning and Emotion

 

Date of publication in German: December 2020
Copyright © Hanna Vock, see imprint.

 

 

 

 

From a Parenting Consultion for a Very Young Boy (1;1)

by Hanna Vock

 

This is an excerpt from the minutes of a parent counseling session. I was talking to the mother about her cognitively very advanced toddler. This is the same child who at an even younger age (crawling) moved across the 3-group kindergarten to find the ball bath again. This is described in more detail here: Plans, Drawings, Sketches, Mind- Maps; there it is right away the first example.

Now David is 1;1 years old and the mother needs counseling.

Mother:
„The other day old friends visited us for a few days, David was there for the first time. But it was not all nice. David still gets really nasty as soon as any of his toys are even touched. Now he has a real confrontation therapy with the two somewhat older visiting children in the house, who also speak a different language. It has already become somewhat better. But until he becomes a friendly host, it is probably still a long way for him…“

Hanna Vock:
„Let’s try to explain the „nasty behavior“ of this smart and actually very friendly child.
David (1;10) is now – as indicated by the frequent „mine“ with which he loudly defends his things from a distance – in the middle of the developmental phase in which he is establishing a concept of ownership for himself for the first time.

Every concept that a child is just developing for himself is extremely important to him for a certain period of time and prevents composure in this matter.
Now David panics that his newly acquired concept of ownership will be challenged. He wants it to be accepted and respected by the environment.

Also, of course, he doesn’t have the perspective that the visit is only temporary. He has gotten into a longer lasting situation in which his property is being disputed. And he can’t yet calm himself down with the fact that the children will be leaving soon, that is still beyond his mental capabilities.

Do the other children ask him if they can take some of his things? They should always do that, even the somewhat older visiting children should try that.

I could imagine that he will show his nice sides again as soon as he realizes that his property is respected in an active way.
A child that has already developed (so early!) a concept of property reacts (rightly) just as sensitively as an adult, just not yet as confidently, calmly and differentiated. (Of course you can use our toilet without asking, but maybe not write on my laptop without being asked or try on my bras…)

It is true that many children also fight back earlier when a toy is taken away from them, i.e. snatched out of their hand, but this is something different. They react angrily or disturbed because they wanted to continue playing with it – not because they consider it their personal property. David, however, can’t stand it when a toy that he himself doesn’t even want to play with at the moment: he already knows that it belongs to him, it’s „mine“!

It should also be considered that the two children are not yet familiar friends for David. Imagine that a guest who is still quite a stranger would simply go to your things and do so again and again despite your protests.
In fact, children feel similarly, as shown by the angry, desperate protests of small children who are in this phase of development, „I have personal property“, which for many children takes place much later. They react especially desperately when the parents also criticize their behavior (and thus take the side of the „aggressor“).

This stage of development and its current expression absolutely does not mean that David will not learn to share or give away. So you don’t have to let fear of the future enter into your feelings. He may soon become quite a charming little host, as long as someone isn’t about to mess with his developing mind.

So the only way you can help him now is by guiding the two host children to ask him
his permission and respect his answer (it’s different from kindergarten!), and by asking David to show them his toys and give them something to play with (because they need something to play with, too). But he will only be able to do that, and only when he realizes that the other children respect his property.“

Postscript:
The parents took the advice. And David, two months later, did indeed become a child who was remarkably good at giving and sharing. His quick mind had now developed the exciting concept of „charming host“ for his social behavior, for which he received appropriate validation.

Comment Hanna Vock:
If the child had been three years old at the time of the consultation, the parents would probably not have been so surprised that the child wanted to guard his property. Then, of course, linguistic explanations would have been better received by the child.
But the child’s early mental development led to a misunderstanding between all parties, frustration for the child, annoyance for the other children, and worry for the parents.

At the time, the young child was animated by the brand new realization:
I know that this is all mine,
and I can already express that.

 

 

Date of publication in German: December 2020
Copyright © Hanna Vock, see imprint.

 

Aus einer Elternberatung für einen kleinen Jungen (1;10)

von Hanna Vock

 

Dies ist ein Auszug aus dem Protokoll einer Elternberatung. Ich sprach mit der Mutter über ihr kognitiv sehr weit entwickeltes Kleinkind. Es ist dasselbe Kind, das sich in noch jüngerem Alter (krabbelnd) quer durch den 3-gruppigen Kindergarten bewegt hat, um das Bällchenbad wieder zu finden. Das ist hier näher beschrieben: Pläne, Zeichnungen, Skizzen, Mind-Maps; dort ist es gleich das erste Beispiel.

Jetzt ist David 1;10 Jahre alt und die Mutter hat Beratungsbedarf.

Mutter:
„Neulich haben uns alte Freunde für ein paar Tage besucht, David war zum ersten Mal dabei. Aber es war nicht alles schön. David wird nach wie vor echt garstig, sobald irgendeins seiner Spielzeuge auch nur berührt wird. Da hat er mit den beiden etwas älteren Besuchskindern im Haus, die auch noch eine andere Sprache sprechen, jetzt natürlich eine richtige Konfrontationstherapie. Es ist schon etwas besser geworden. Aber bis zu einem freundlichen Gastgeber ist es wohl für ihn trotzdem noch ein weiter Weg…“

Vock:
„Versuchen wir, uns das „garstige Verhalten“ dieses klugen und eigentlich sehr freundlichen Kindes zu erklären.
David (1;10) ist jetzt – das zeigt ja auch das häufige „meiner“ an, mit dem er lautstark aus der Entfernung seine Sachen verteidigt – mitten in der Entwicklungsphase, in der er zum ersten Mal einen Eigentumsbegriff für sich aufbaut.

Jedes Konzept, das ein Kind für sich gerade neu entwickelt, ist ihm für eine gewisse Zeit äußerst wichtig und verhindert Gelassenheit in dieser Frage.
Jetzt hat David Panik, dass seine neu errungene Eigentumsvorstellung in Frage gestellt wird. Er möchte, dass sie von der Umwelt akzeptiert und respektiert wird.

Außerdem hat er natürlich nicht den Überblick, dass der Besuch nur vorübergehend da ist. Er ist in eine länger andauernde Situation geraten, in der ihm sein Eigentum streitig gemacht wird. Und er kann sich noch nicht damit beruhigen, dass die Kinder ja bald wieder abreisen, das übersteigt noch seine geistigen Möglichkeiten.

Fragen ihn denn die anderen Kinder, ob sie etwas von seinen Sachen nehmen dürfen? Das sollten sie immer tun, auch die etwas älteren Besuchskinder sollten das versuchen.

Ich könnte mir vorstellen, dass er wieder seine lieben Seiten zeigt, sobald er merkt, dass sein Eigentum handelnd (!) respektiert wird.
Ein Kind, dass bereits (so früh) einen Eigentumsbegriff entwickelt hat, reagiert (zu Recht) genauso empfindlich wie ein Erwachsener, nur noch nicht so selbstsicher, gelassen und differenziert. (Natürlich könnt Ihr unser Klo benutzen ohne zu fragen, aber vielleicht nicht ungefragt auf meinem Laptop schreiben oder meine BHs anprobieren…)

Zwar wehren sich viele Kinder auch schon früher, wenn ihnen ein Spielzeug weg genommen, also aus der Hand gerissen wird, aber das ist etwas anderes. Sie reagieren wütend oder verstört, weil sie damit weiter spielen wollten – nicht, weil sie es als ihr persönliches Eigentum betrachten. David kann es aber nicht ertragen, dass eines seiner Spielzeuge genommen wird, auch wenn er selbst gerade gar nicht damit spielen will: Er weiß schon, dass es ihm gehört, es ist „meiner“!

Zu bedenken ist auch, dass die beiden Kinder für David ja noch keine lang vertrauten Freunde sind. Stellen Sie sich vor, ein noch recht fremder Gast würde einfach an Ihre Sachen gehen und das trotz Ihres Protests immer wieder.
Tatsächlich empfinden Kinder ähnlich, das zeigen die in dieser Phase immer wieder auftretenden wütend-verzweifelten Proteste von kleinen Kindern, die grade in dieser Entwicklungsphase „ich habe persönliches Eigentum“ stecken, die bei etlichen Kindern allerdings erst deutlich später stattfindet. Besonders verzweifelt reagieren sie dann, wenn die Eltern ihr Verhalten auch noch kritisieren (und sich damit auf die Seite des „Aggressors“ stellen).

Diese Entwicklungsphase und ihre derzeitige Ausprägung bedeuten absolut nicht, dass David nicht teilen oder abgeben lernen wird. Also müssen Sie keine Angst vor der Zukunft in Ihre Gefühle einfließen lassen. Vielleicht wird er bald zu einem ganz charmanten kleinen Gastgeber, solange nicht gerade jemand dabei ist, seinen sich entwickelnden Verstand durcheinander zu bringen.

Also können Sie ihm jetzt nur helfen, indem Sie die beiden Gastkinder anleiten, ihn
um Erlaubnis zu fragen und seine Antwort auch zu respektieren (es ist eben anders als in der Kita), und indem Sie David bitten, dass er den Beiden seine Spielsachen zeigt und ihnen etwas zum Spielen gibt (weil sie ja auch was zum Spielen brauchen). Das wird er aber nur und erst dann tun können, wenn er merkt, dass die anderen Kinder sein Eigentum respektieren.“

Nachtrag:
Die Eltern befolgten den Rat. Und David zeigte sich zwei Monate später tatsächlich als ein Kind, das auffallend gut abgeben und teilen kann. Sein rascher Verstand hatte für sein Sozialverhalten jetzt das spannende Konzept des „charmanten Gastgebers“ entwickelt, wofür er angemessene Bestätigung erhielt.

Kommentar Hanna Vock:
Wäre das Kind zum Zeit der Beratung drei Jahre alt gewesen, dann hätten die Eltern sich vermutlich nicht so sehr darüber gewundert, dass das Kind sein Eigentum hüten wollte. Dann wären natürlich auch sprachliche Erklärungen schon besser beim Kind angekommen.
Aber die frühe geistige Entwicklung des Kindes führte zu einem Missverständnis zwischen allen Beteiligten, zu Frust beim Kind, Verärgerung bei den anderen Kindern und zu Sorgen bei den Eltern.

Das kleine Kind war zu dem Zeitpunkt beseelt von der ganz neuen Erkenntnis:
Ich weiß, dass das alles meins ist,
und das kann ich auch schon äußern.

 

 

 

Quizfragen zu „Frau Holle“

von Larissa Behlau

 

Für meine zweite Praxisaufgabe (im IHVO-Zertifikatskurs) habe ich aus unserer letzten Fortbildung die Idee aufgegriffen, dass am Anfang eines Denkprozesses immer eine gute Frage steht.

Ich möchte daher für mein Team das Märchen „Frau Holle“ mit Fragen vorbereiten. Die Kollegen können dann mit dieser Mappe das Märchen den Kindern vorlesen und im Anschluss daran ein Fragespiel mit ihnen machen. Die Kinder werden so zum Denken und Nachdenken angeregt und herausgefordert.

Wenn diese Mappe gut ankommt, sollen noch weitere Märchen mit entsprechenden Fragen folgen.

Frau Holle

Eine Witwe hatte zwei Töchter, davon war eine fleißig und die andere faul.

Eines Tages fiel der fleißigen eine Spule in den Brunnen. Sie weinte, lief zur Stiefmutter und erzählte ihr das Unglück. Diese schimpfte heftig und sprach: „Du hast die Spule hinunterfallen lassen, so hol sie auch wieder herauf.“ So ging das Mädchen zum Brunnen zurück und wusste nicht, was es tun sollte:

In seiner Herzensangst sprang es in den Brunnen hinein, um die Spule zu holen. Es verlor die Besinnung, und als es erwachte und wieder zu sich kam, war es auf einer schönen Wiese, wo die Sonne schien und viele tausend Blumen standen.

Es kam zu einem Backofen, der voller Brot war. Das Brot rief: „Ach, zieh mich raus, zieh mich raus, sonst verbrenn ich: ich bin schon längst ausgebacken.“ Da holte es mit dem Brotschieber alle Brote heraus.

Danach ging es weiter und kam zu einem Baum, der hing voll Äpfel. Der Baum rief: „Ach schüttle mich, schüttle mich, die Äpfel sind alle miteinander reif.“ Da schüttelte es den Baum, bis keine Apfel mehr oben war. Nachdem es alle Äpfel ordentlich auf einem Haufen gesammelt hatte, ging es weiter.

So kam es zu einem kleinen Haus, aus dem eine alte Frau herausschaute und rief: „Bleib bei mir, liebes Kind, wenn du alle Arbeit im Hause ordentlich erledigst, soll es dir gut ergehen. Du musst nur Acht geben, dass du mein Bett gut machst und es fleißig aufschüttelst, dass die Federn fliegen, dann schneit es in der Welt; ich bin Frau Holle.“

Weil die Alte ihm so gut zusprach, so fasste sich das Mädchen ein Herz, willigte ein und begab sich in ihren Dienst. Es besorgte alles nach ihrer Zufriedenheit und schüttelte das Bett immer auf, dass die Federn wie Schneeflocken umherflogen.

Dafür hatte es ein gutes Leben bei ihr und hörte kein böses Wort und wurde doch irgendwann traurig. Sie hatte Heimweh, obwohl es ihr hier tausendmal besser ging als zu Hause.

Sie sprach zu Frau Holle: „Obwohl es mir hier sehr gut geht, so kann ich doch nicht länger bleiben, ich muss wieder hinauf zu den Meinigen. Ich möchte wieder nach Hause.“ Frau Holle sagte: „Es gefällt mir, dass du wieder nach Haus möchtest. Weil du mir so treu gedient hast, will ich dich selbst wieder hinaufbringen.“ Sie nahm es bei der Hand und führte es vor ein großes Tor. Das Tor öffnete sich, und als das Mädchen gerade darunter stand, fiel ein gewaltiger Goldregen herab, und alles Gold blieb an ihr hängen, so dass es über und über davon bedeckt war. „Das sollst du haben, weil du so fleißig gewesen bist“ sprach Frau Holle und gab ihr auch die Spule wieder, die ihr in den Brunnen gefallen war. Darauf schloss sich das Tor wieder, und das Mädchen befand sich oben auf der Welt, nicht weit entfernt vom Haus seiner Stiefmutter. Als sie auf den Hof kam, saß der Hahn auf dem Brunnen und rief: „Kikeriki, unsere goldene Jungfrau ist wieder hie.“

Da ging es hinein zu seiner Mutter, und alle freuten sich, dass sie wieder da war. Das Mädchen erzählte alles, was ihr begegnet war, und als die Mutter hörte, wie es zu dem großen Reichtum gekommen war, wollte sie der anderen faulen Tochter gerne dasselbe Glück verschaffen. Sie musste die Spule in den Brunnen werfen und hinterher springen.

So kam sie, wie die andere, auf die schöne Wiese und ging auf denselben Pfaden weiter. Als sie zu dem Backofen gelangte, schrie das Brot wieder „Ach, zieh mich raus, zieh mich raus, sonst verbrenn ich, ich bin schon längst ausgebacken.“ Die Faule aber antwortete: „Ich habe keine Lust mich schmutzig zu machen,“ und ging weiter. Bald kam sie zu dem Apfelbaum, der rief „Ach, schüttle mich, schüttle mich, die Äpfel sind alle miteinander reif.“ Sie antwortete aber „Nein, es könnte mir einer auf den Kopf fallen,“ und ging weiter. Als sie zu Frau Holles Haus kam, bat sie ihr direkt ihre Dienste an. Am ersten Tag war sie fleißig und hörte auf Frau Holle, wenn sie ihr etwas sagte, denn sie dachte an das viele Gold, das sie ihr schenken würde. Am zweiten Tag aber fing sie schon zu faulenzen an. Am dritten noch mehr, da wollte sie morgens gar nicht aufstehen. Sie machte auch der Frau Holle das Bett nicht und schüttelte es nicht, bis die Federn aufflogen.

Da kündigte ihr Frau Holle den Dienst. Die Faule war zufrieden und dachte, dass nun der Goldregen kommen müsse. Frau Holle führte sie auch zu dem Tor, als sie aber darunter stand, wurde statt des Goldes ein großer Kessel voll Pech ausgeschüttet. „Das ist die Belohnung deiner Dienste“ sagte die Frau Holle und schloss das Tor zu. Als die Faule nach Hause kam, war sie ganz mit Pech bedeckt und der Hahn auf dem Brunnen rief: „Kikeriki, unsere schmutzige Jungfrau ist wieder hie.“

Das Pech blieb fest an ihr hängen und wollte, so lange sie lebte, nicht wieder abgehen.

Fragen:

Was fiel in den Brunnen?

eine goldene Kugel  eine Spule  ein Eimer

Wo erwachte das Mädchen nach seinem Sprung in den Brunnen?

Wiese  Feld  Wald

Warum wollte das Brot aus dem Backofen gezogen werden?

es war verbrannt  es war ausgebacken  es war fertig

Was rief der Baum, der voller Äpfel hing?

Pflücke meine Äpfel!“  „Hebe meine Äpfel auf!“  „Schüttle mich!“

Worauf soll das Mädchen achten, wenn es das Bett aufschüttelt?

dass die Federn fliegen  dass alles sauber bleibt  dass es ordentlich ist

Warum möchte das Mädchen nach Hause?

es vermisst die Mutter  es hat Heimweh es möchte nicht mehr arbeiten

Wohin führt Frau Holle das Mädchen, damit es wieder nach Hause kann?

Tor   Tür  Brunnen

Was fällt auf das Mädchen herab?

Sterne  Blumen  Goldregen

Wer begrüßt das Mädchen als Erstes?

Esel  Hahn  Hund

Wen schickt die Mutter als nächstes zum Brunnen, um dort reinzuspringen?

die faule Tochter  den faulen Sohn  die faule Dienstmagd

Warum holt die faule Tochter das Brot nicht aus dem Backofen?

sie ist zu faul  sie will sich nicht schmutzig machen   es ist ihr zu schwer

Warum hilft die faule Tochter dem Apfelbaum nicht?

die Äpfel könnten ihr auf den Kopf fallen  sie könnte sich schmutzig machen
sie ist zu müde

Was wollte das faule Mädchen am dritten Tag bei Frau Holle nicht mehr?

das Bett schütteln  aufstehen   Frühstück machen

Was bekommt das faule Mädchen als „Belohnung“?

Goldregen  Sterne  Pech

 

Spielregeln:

Als erstes wird das Märchen vorgelesen. Dann werden auf dem Boden drei Felder markiert. Jedes Feld entspricht einer Antwortmöglichkeit.

Die Kinder stehen am Rand des Raums. Dann wird die Frage gestellt und es werden die drei Antwortmöglichkeiten genannt. Jetzt müssen die Kinder sich entsprechend ihrer Antwort auf ein Feld stellen.

Für jede richtige Antwort wird eine Wäscheklammer angesteckt. So wird am Ende deutlich, wer von den Kindern gewonnen hat.

 

Die fertige Arbeitsmappe!

 

Meine Kollegin, die auch an dieser Fortbildung teilnimmt, wird in ihrer Praxisaufgabe dieses Angebot durchführen und reflektieren.

Wir sind schon sehr gespannt, wie die Kinder dieses Angebot annehmen werden.

 

Datum der Veröffentlichung: Dezember 2020
Copyright © Hanna Vock